In days when women didnt have jobs,women stayed home. They were restricted, some were not, but some did. But there were far less divorces. It was because the women always sacrificed for her husband. These days women work and they are trying to prove that they are better than men. They want to exercise too much of freedom. Infact they dont want to give up they past life to get into a new married life. Thats when marriage fails. Men are always simple dressed. But women should understand what is appropriate for dressing after marriage. It should show that bonding to the public. It was ok when you were single. Parents didnt bother your random choices because they wanted to see you happy and never saw from the perspective of marriage. I guess parents should start grooming girls to prepare for marriage at an early age. Because if the marriage doest work out, its because of them. Because men were always the same. Besides Love is totally unconditional, Marrige is totally conditional, beacuse a woman walks into another family, she should be treated well and also there are many laws to favour her. Unless she behaves in the way the family wants, no family can accept her. She may have to sacrifice everything to get married. But the most important thing is she is married and she will have a new life. Whats worse is if she does not get a spouse on time.
Movies and rubbish romanctic novels are responsible for all this. Love always comes with conditions. Marriage is based upon whats in it for me. Women who stay at home, life is easy for them.. Men have to work hard for their families and on top of that wives complaints of being non romantic.
Man has his responsibility to be fulfilled and woman on the other hand has her responsibility to be taken care off, if any one of them fails the relationship becomes chaotic, some woman likes to do job, then they shouldn't be married because the kids and the home becomes mess, men shouldn't get married if they are not leading a disciplined life, it will create problems for the entire family. Be responsible and disciplined for a great family life.
If 100% freedom is given to ladies in India to decide and control their personal life, all the problems of intolerence, communal hatred, religion-differences will gradually vanish. Most of the religions continue their control by controlling women and their movements. I dont think more than 10% of Indians are happy after marriage, they only remain couples due to constraints.
Re: freedom to women
by alok kumar on Oct 05, 2015 05:48 PM
what is 100% freedom...and for what class of women is being talked about is important. what is unconditional love..i don't understand...if some body asks for respect for his mother and father whats wrong in it..doesn't we all respect our mother and father ???.let me tell you tolerance is very important be a boy or girl.
