It is how ironic that these educated english language knowing person is influenced so easily by so called motivational speakers,try telling them in hindi they wouldnt understand,so motivational lecturers are nothing but fluent english speaking market conmen.
Rediff readers may wish to read \'STANDING OVATION\' - Fifteen speeches to steer the budding orator - by Sterling Publishers. It is a motivational and inspirational book displayed at the London, Delhi and Kolkata Book Fairs.
...might not be fair approach because we are living in a society where obliging and getting obliged is part of daily routine i.e.too much commercialised/selfish attitude is unsustainable...