to thyself be true.A man should inspire himself and not by his parents, teachers or other leaders. My father passed away when i was young, there was no one to guide. I have made umpteen mistakes regarding my career. I had the best of jobs in defence ,railways, but that never gave me satisfaction. I may have become rich, but ended up poor. But then i realised that spiritual life is best where one can understand other human beings. In the words of Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They came through you but not from you and though they are with you yet they belong not to you.