I am sure they brought you up with a lot of love and you on the other hand put it all away for your husband. what selfish love. Compromise should be on both sides, not one sided like yours. I have a feeling you are sugar coating your life.
Re: Re: sorry for your parents
by com on May 07, 2014 12:01 AM
If they respect soooooo much then why did foist their culture on her, the marriage tradition should be their side, everything their side. Disgusting.
Re: Re: sorry for your parents
by com on May 07, 2014 12:04 AM
you are right, she wanted it so she is happy, and if that is the case with her parents too, then where is the question of "compromise", they were ready for it from the beginning.
Re: Basically You folded!
by sri dg on May 07, 2014 12:35 PM
to accomodate other Indian culture only rflects your broad mindedness and flexibility and not one's weakness!
Re: Re: Basically You folded!
by inder on May 08, 2014 06:13 AM
thats the point. one side is broadminded and the other side is not. Now you figure out which is which :)
Rediff, Please stop the promotion of the movie 2 states The movie is out and is running successfully. There are other movies in pipeline which needs to be promoted. You didn't tell us how Shahrukh khan has spent his Happy New Year 2014. May be you can run a contest asking how each one of us have spent our previous new year. OR : When was the last time any of your readers did some Heropanti etc. etc.
sometimes marriage can be a curse in itself. Young successful, a great job and financially secure settled abroad. Decided to so the so called "RIGHT THING". Got into a arranged marriage. 4 years down the lane I still regret immensely. Marriage is so over-rated and indians live through this charade even if it ain't working. Me included.
Re: Marriage is over-rated
by chandra sekar on May 06, 2014 07:36 PM
I am on your side..Marriage is definitely overhyped. I always wonder whether a dominating husband would have behaved the same way with his loving sisters and mother..similarly a taunting,nagging wife would have behaved the same way with her dad or dear brother..Unfortunately the sufferer puts up with everything because we are told right since childhood that husband and wife relation is a very special and sacred one and no third person can understand it. wish i had listened to my friends who had rightly said it's an out and out losing proposition.
Re: Re: Marriage is over-rated
by keith dsouza on May 11, 2014 04:06 PM | Hide message
A loving husband will have intercourse with his wife while she is having her periods
Re: Marriage is over-rated
by _ on May 07, 2014 07:27 AM
happy with my single status even in mid 40s i hv a friend wh is battling with 498A everyday with recepit of anonymous letters to workplace, police frequenting to workplace, regular appearances at the state office of womens cell tc. one mistake has scr3wd his whole life.
