Earlier Orthodox Hindus would marry children so that they would continue with each other till death and there was no economic inflation like it is now, they could continue caste and retain their status in society & the concept of divorce was also non-existant with formal education.
In today's age - Even if a Man i handsome, has 2 degrees and a Well paid job with House and facilities, Girls will always look to Reject at the slightest pretext and also threaten for divorce and also expect to get monetary benefits after divorce.
Marriage has become like a scam, that can be misused both by Man / woman.
There is also scope for corruption & adultery before & after marriage as well.
So, it should not be devoted only to work & wasted. Married life too is equally important as work.An equal balance between professional & personal life is very important.It's true that marriage should be done only if you are properly settled. But the real charm of marriage is only when you are in the younger age. So I believe that the ideal age for a man to marry should be between 31-33 years.
I married at 41 got a kid at 42 and now I have no work no business. Life is standstill. I was 'kicked' thrice, at the age of 22 ,33 and 38 . 41 is the best age.
competition is too much.. women have become way too demanding these days .. and all that pressure adds up on Men . to perform and give their best,. Many Men may suffer frm depression too due to this . its not that we dun wanna marry at the right age . Our parents , forefathers.. were lucky enuff to escape the pressures of a modern society .
There is no right age or wrong age to marry, for both men and women.
There's only a right time and that's whenever you are ready for that kind of responsibility and commitment. Sometimes, you do have to forego kids, if you no longer are in the biological age to have kids.
It's better to wait for the right person than to rush into it because of biological reasons and end up with the wrong husband/wife, as well as have the wrong father/mother for your child.
Responsible person marries when he thinks he can take the responsibility of family like wife and in future children. There is no age limit for marriage , I suppose.
though every man prefer to marry when he has own house and reasonable monthly income ... but practically, this rarely happen... majority do not own house at the time of marriage. In general, appropriate age is around 25 years but individual's ambitions and responsibilities might force any one to delay though manageable in every circumstances...
Re: marriagable age?
by ankit singhal on Jan 09, 2014 12:39 AM
you are wrong, today most of middle class guys have house and decent background but do not have well paid job to attract good looking women.
