Don't really care what the book says here, but i have to say this, having gone through the experience myself, If you thinking of coming out of marriage, Please take a moment and think it through clearly. Trust me the pain you are going to go through after the divorce is for more unrelenting than being in a unhappy marriage. I am not asking you to be in an unhappy marriage, but make sure you put in all the effort to make it work before you decide to pull the plug.
Once you are divorced there is no going back, but if you are still married even though you are unhappy, you atleast have a chance fix it.
Re: Don't do it
by Srini on Mar 13, 2014 10:31 AM
No marriage works automagically. You have to make it work. And divorce, unless it is absolutely unbearable to stay in the marriage, is not the solution. @xbm Sorry for you, but sometimes life deals the wrong end of the stick. Hope you find peace soon.
Seriously? Marriage like life? Marriage is but one of the aspects of life that has been complicated owing to the progress of civilization and insertion of complicated socio-cultural practices into our societies...
The lady in question is trying to make light of everything now in retrospect to mask her inner grief. Like many of us, she must have been through the trials and tribulations of getting married while not being great looking. When things dont work out, it is convenient to pass the blame onto parents or atleast make fun of their good intentions. To those still to be married, Nobody marries thinking they will divorce. There is too much long lasting pain. Definitely nothing worth making fun of.
Re: Divorce a healthy option
by Gaurav GUPTA on Feb 20, 2014 11:13 AM
Yes divorce is a better option than being in an unhappy marriage but the problem arises when the unequal divorce laws are taken into account and the woman tries to do the maximum amount of damage to the guys social standing,finances, career etc. It would be much easier if the law would allow quick divoces
Re: Re: Divorce a healthy option
by sukhmeet singh on Feb 20, 2014 04:57 PM
agree with u gaurav.. the need of the hour is equal laws for men and women, which includes abolition of dowry law since it is misused and manipulated by women.
