Non of them have stated what the parents have under gone, being humiliated,commented, lose of respect and value. Is it not a Forced compromise by the parents be it for girl or boy.
Re: Non of them wrote what their family felt displaced or humilia
by super on Jul 22, 2014 10:57 PM
Not sure as how many have really shared the feeling of parents and agony they have undergone silents. The most lovable and un doubted love is parents love to children
There are two elementary universal truths which we often forget. 1- Ego is an inborn quality in men 2-Jealousy is inborn in Women. Most of the wild, crazy behaviour results from any of these getting triggered on the wrong side. If we can understand this and tolerate it for a few moments or hours without reacting in the heat of the moment, problems may not get blown out. Again the communication channels must be always open as shutting the same ( i mean not talking to each other) will only widen the rift. In this scenario it is the men who need to compromise as i have never seen a woman breaking the ice. It might hurt the man's ego but it it can break the ice ..then why not..afterall peace at home is priceless..
