my wife is muslim from Assam and i am tamil brahmin. we have been married for 6 years and it has been great so far. I can only thank my wife for trying to follow all our customs and practices and I try my best to ensure her interets are taken care. there will be tongues wagging and some family members keeping their distance but fortunately my parents have come around although slowly.
it is like the binge drinking evening when you just cant stop, but regret every bit of it the next morning. the only difference is that the hangover here cannot go away after a few hours or few days. you are stuck with it for the lifetime. a person has to be really flexible and capable of adjusting self to survive in such relationships. it is not a cup of tea for everyone except for a real milk toast that can cheerfully accept verbal and occasional physical abuses from not only his own family, but also from the family of his would be.
No self-respecting man or woman can enter into such a unwanted relationship unless of course they are blinded by passion.
Unlike in western countries, marriage in India is supposed to be life long matter. Emotions like love, hate are temporary traps. In the long run they just do not matter. Hence, as far as possible, avoid inter-caste, inter-religion, inter-language marriages.
Re: Marriage
by siddharth on Apr 15, 2014 08:05 PM
And continue inbreeding so that 400 years down the line, our future generation is least capable when compared to others. Already Indians have one of the lowest average height, are weaker and bad looking when compared to others.
Re: Re: Marriage
by prem k on Apr 15, 2014 09:27 PM
can you roll out research, statistics please to support your claim? not what you hold as your belief. and of course, not one of the super intellectual articles from mughalistan or dalitistan etc.
North and South are as different as Chalk and Cheese. Best for them to separate and form separate nations. We can better live as neighbours than as one country.
Re: North South
by on Apr 15, 2014 09:40 PM
ABSOLUTELY CORRECT and especially Tamilnadu whichis geographically by climate is completely different from REST OF INDIA. the Tamilnadu has moved aalready from mainstream since most of its peole have stopped venturing into North but established themselves in EAST ASIA MIDDLE EAST NORTH AMERICA AUSTRALIA AND A SPRINKLE IN THE WHOLE OF WORLD. In the next twenty five years there will be clash of intleectualism between SRILANKAN TAMILS AND TAMILNADU TAMILS since SRILANKAN TAMILS DVOLVED FROM COLONIALISM while TAMILNADU TAMILS have with their all hatred for TAMIL SPEAKING BRAHMINS evolved from TAMIL SPEAKING BRAHMINS and they will metmorphise as TAMIL SPEAKING BRAHMINS
