My parents and would be in-laws, asked me to take my future wife somewhere. I don’t know What to do ?, so I took my would be wife to the cremation ground in Rishikesh.
Few dead bodies were burning next to river Ganges. I told my would be wife, I don’t care about money and material, for me they are just prepaid mobile card, use and throw as required.
But a girl is a living breathing human being and I cannot exploit or treat them like material, so from my side I am ready for a life long contract.
But someday this contract will also expire on a cremation ground like this, so choice is yours. You still got cooling off time till marriage, to change your mind.
My future wife look confused and said, 'OK if you are done, can you find a restaurant to eat something'.
I feel the other way round is true. Husbands do not change but they are changed. We look at the problem from the side of the girl and everyone forgets the lad after his marriage. We husbands get changed and put all our efforts to hel HER out and act as per the wife's instruction I feel proud in doing so since she is the only person cares for me after my parents.( My parents are dead). I love my wife and share half of her burden regarding family matters. When the ego overcomes emotions "we" feel defeated and presume if I wer not married!!!!
Re: Consent age reduced to 16 so enjoy 2 more years before marria
by siddharth on Mar 15, 2013 02:21 PM
It is reduced for all, not only for girls. But you seemed to be worried only about the reduction applicable to girls.
DON'T get pregnant in the very first year of your marriage??..what if a man's tool get broken in d 2nd year??..unnecessarily we will have to give money for surrogacy..so dont waste time folks..start producing at the earliest..
Re: begin fast
by Li Na on Mar 15, 2013 12:53 PM
raising a child properly is much more important than spreading your genes.
humans are different...only animals want to "start producing at the earliest"
it's best to raise an emotionally healthy child which is only possible if husband and wife understand each other and each others needs....or don't raise a child at all.
Re: Re: begin fast
by siddharth on Mar 15, 2013 02:30 PM
Can not agree more. In our society, the next step to marriage is kids. People get married for breeding. People who especially women who find happiness in their career and decide not to get married earlier are branded to be unhappy and have made a wrong choice. Our marriages are assumed to happen only for breeding.
Re: Re: begin fast
by Adithya Krishnan on Mar 17, 2013 08:30 PM
hey...i wasntserious while commenting that..it was a comment to be taken on a lighter note..why people like u get serious and replying seriously??..these kind of discussions r just time pass..i appreciate your comments but what you said is not the thing i dont know..if a man cant protect his greatest strength, then he's not a man..i just commented earlier on a lighter vein..
IMPO- whats wrong with people of the 1800's??..didnr they live properly and happily?? they should have lived better and responsibly than us protecting indian culture and environment..this is unlike d present generation who go madly after western, culture, style and thus destroying the true identity of india..one should be proud of their ancestors,becoz without them, we would not have even born..keep that in mind ms/mrs. 2013!!
