Thank you for making having babies sound like a death sentence!
And the article missed a very important point to consider .......
'Ensure that the s p e r m donor is willing to commit to being a dedicated father before he makes the "donation"'!
Most men become fathers for all the wrong reasons such as 'my friend became a father'; 'I have to show the world my outdoor plumbing works', 'I need to show the world I am hetero' and the best one ..... 'To shut up this annoying woman I am married to for life'!
This disconnect is a sure fire recipe for marital disasters brought on by having kids when only one of the two people in a marriage are ready to have kids!