Iam 10 yrs married with my lovely and single wife. We both have nothing in common except the understanding that we are not in common. But we love each other.I inform her major decisions, she takes my permission for any decision(even though I wanted her to decided on her own). This is a relationship and no rules & regulations, can drive , except the faith and love.
After reading Ganesh I would like to clarify. I also love my wife very dearly. We have been married for 46 years.But ofcourse there are lot of arguments because I am a rationalist and always stick to truth. As truth is not absolute we argue. Dhiru Mistry
Dear Lalitha, I have been married for 29 years. My wife does not like anything I do or say. I dont like half the things she does. But we do love each other. You sound like your marriage is some sort of competition. I dont seek my wife's approval for anything that i do and she ignores my opionion in everything she wants to do. our marriage is successful because we give each other space. No my wife is not on facebook or twitter, where does she have the time. unlike those days when we had soaps only in the evening, now they are there round the clock. Yes! I hate the soaps she watches, but never object. She also thinks playing poker on facebook is childish but it doesnt count. we are going to celebrate our golden anniversary together, without competition
Re: do you like your spouse
by police on Jul 26, 2013 04:29 PM
All the best...you are absolutely right... marriage is celebrating together your lives, no matter how much you like/dislike your partner's deeds. i think Ms Iyer is mentally retarded with excellent vocabulary knowledge...
Lalita is right. Former days one would be satisfied if one receives a post card or a trunk call after seven days. These days if I go to bathroom I have to tell my wife otherwise she would ask me on phone,'where are you?'The space is lost. Dhiru Mistry
Re: Marriage status: social media
by shashi phatak on Jul 30, 2013 11:04 AM
Many marriages are failing and heading for divorce because they have no Tolerance and adjustment. Men have become greedy after spose's money. They have no confidance in earning money own their own. Women have become demanding for getting all material comforts due to Social media advertising. In short each have become selfish. God bless them and put some commensense in their brain.
