Have been reading few stories posted on rediff..one of the highlights of every story is parents not agreeing for a love relationship.
I am one of the victim of same old orthodox thinkers...I am an MBA working as a Manager in a MNC owning a house in Mumbai..
I was in a relationship with one of my office colleague 3 years back , me being a south indian and she being maharastrain her parents were againts reunion...
To cut the long story sort my parent were happy with my choice the day i told them however the girls parents conservative behavior and thinking cost us a lot...she is happily married now and I am single looking for a girl.
The point i would like to put across is parents need to trust 2 matured individuals have right to choose their life partner...which does not mean parents should not have a say in the decision, however caste and language should not be deciding factor.
We are in 2013 and the same old story still continues....lets hope there will be a day when parent will trust us and let take our decision.
Re: Parents need to trust us!!
by TS Gupta on Feb 04, 2013 05:50 PM
My dear, I feel sorry for your story. But one thing I want to tell you, if the girl was really in love with you, she should have waited and be adamant till her parents agreed to marry her with you. In my circle, there was one girl who is from forward caste loved a christian. Her parents have not agreed to her marriage, but she said I am ready to be unmarried throught out my live rather than marrying another person. After a great deal of resistance, the parents have to accept. Now she is married to her lover and leading a cordial relationship with her lover and her parents. Hence patience and determination from the girl and the boys is the key to success.
Have been reading few stories posted on rediff..one of the highlights of every story is parents not agreeing for a love relationship.
I am one of the victim of same old orthodox thinkers...I am an MBA working as a Manager in a MNC owning a house in Mumbai..
I was in a relationship with one of my office colleague 3 years back , me being a south indian and she being maharastrain her parents were againts reunion...
To cut the long story sort my parent were happy with my choice the day i told them however the girls parents conservative behavior and thinking cost us a lot...she is happily married now and I am single looking for a girl.
The point i would like to put across is parents need to trust 2 matured individuals have right to choose their life partner...which does not mean parents should not have a say in the decision, however caste and language should not be deciding factor.
We are in 2013 and the same old story still continues....lets hope there will be a day when parent will trust us and let take our decision.
Please try and find her. At least you will have the satisfaction of knowing how she fared in life. And, she too will be happy to meet you again. "Chokhe ghum nei" was too touching a sentence to read. Only finding her whereabouts will help. Try getting in touch with her batchmates and friends and trace her out.
dada i feel that u shd come out of this so called love story . seems u are still living it i past which i feel is utter nonsense. i passed thru somethig similar but then married someone else. today i feel that if i were to be given a chance i wud marry my wife again and not that college life love. i beleivu shd get over this old hangover and live life in prseent circumstaces.
