i have a Qn: was your love for her coz of her beauty alone???? would you have felt the same if she were not so beautiful???? i believe you wouldn't even noticed her, this is my assumption and may b i am wrong.
Tapas Das: Love should be unconditional but looking into reality, there's a lot of expectation and pressure from others as well.
We talk in terms of love, but there are a lot of things which a girl needs to compromise. Believe me I somewhere regret not understadning my girl, all she wanted is happiness, she cared me and at the same time she wanted her parents happiness as well.
her parents didnt like me, they were not convinced i was worth, and why not, today i also believe I wasn't the best for her.
Being unable to cope up with the negatives of me and her family, she decided to leave both us in order to not upset by choosing one.
i regret having not understood her. Similar must be the story of your girl i feel, Women think in all terms. You never know she must have also been living in dark without letting anybody know her pain for the happiness of others.
valentine is coming. my dear getting the girl is easy part. putting up with her for rest of life, that no easy. salut to all husbands who are putting up bravely till the very end w/o running away.
Question is not about Start. it is about continuing this till end of the life. At the same maintaining healthy relationships with your family and his family. Making friendship, taking it to next level love and then taking it to another level Marriage are very good steps. The most critical is continuing the same and trusting each other for life long and living happily forever. If you can do, that's what is called successful marriage.
