Dost, A friendly advice, unlike the suggestion of few other forum members. Life has another name "ACHIEVE". Many years down the line when you are old with no energy left, you should not regret thinking that "Thoda or effort kiya hota". On the death bed, every single person reminds of their achievements and losses of his/ her life and believe me the loses gives you too much pain which you can't bear but u also can't do anything(that time). Always try to make your achievements at-least 70-80% more than your loses if you don't wanna die in agony of not able to achieve something which you believe in.
So what ever the case is, Try, Try again, Try hard... Till you are successful in getting which you once dream t.
Girl, Money, Position, Respect, Power are few of the attributes which one thinks off while on death bed. So never ever take a easy route of moving on, but strive hard to get it.
Dont get upset about messages here ,love is love when you feel it in your heart ,love is divine and a bliss for the soul ,love not demands but gives ,love gives you wings ,with them you fly high and long ,you never forget what your love for her made you ,never ,true love is a prayer which comes from the heart and ends in the heart ,once it is there you never loose it ,it makes you better human being everyday ,poor minds cant understand it ,love is not give and take ,she was your sweetheart and will always ,when you will get married ,you will love that girl in the same way you loved your first love ,it is a process which makes you a man day by day ,hope you have learnt to see the realities of life because as a process you are bound to see .wish you all the best .
Dear Raj, See, u may be loving her truly no doubt about it, but u have misunderstood her sympathy towards you for love. She used to help u out of pure sympathy because of ur physical inabilites. But, in todays life one thing is sure that most of the girls prefer a life partner who is complete in all aspects. Physical fitness being one of them. Going by your real story it gives an impression that the moment u proposed to her she stopped talking to u and wanted to keep u away from her, if at all she had any kind of attachment towards u leave alone love she would have atleast be friends with you for life. but she was not at all ready to accept u as a friend also which clearly shows her attitude. May be her attitude was one of the reasons for her divorce. Not all girls are good nor all girls are bad but its the life and upbringing which makes human a human. U have moved on in life mentally but not emotionally and u r fooling urself by saying that u have moved on in life. Go for some1 who really likes u and wants u in her life, that will be a real big move for u emotionally. If u are emotionally strong u can do whatever u want to achive. Best of all the luck to u in life. Hope u soon find the kind of true love u gave to rachna from a caring and loving girl. And one more thing, it may also be that rachna has not got the guts to be with u out of shame that she could never understand ur love for her. Try once again and if luck has its way she will be urs else move on emotionally.
You are wasting your life and trying to do the same with her. If she firmly told you not to call her even after knowing each other for may be 20 years or so, you should move on. Unfortunately, you did not. Do whatever you want in life, but don't waste your time writing mushy stories about your 100% one side love. She never loved you, don't want to. Her divorce or troubles is no opportunity, let her live her life.
You should know your limitations, as everyone should. Being handicaped is no excuse for stalking a girl. This is a love story for you, but this would only be harrassment for her. Stop acting innocent.
Re: Stop trying to spoil her life
by Sunil Swain on Jan 22, 2013 11:38 PM
Correct.. Maybe you should try for other girls whom you found attractive. One Sided love never works out.
Re: Stop trying to spoil her life
by FRANK LAMPARD on Jan 23, 2013 03:18 AM
stop being mean and stop giving suggestions. he hasnt asked for any suggestions here.
