Dear brother Sadiq, Hats-off for your pure feelings towards the lady...... Also full respect & salam for a special mom who brought-up such a wonderful charactered guy .... lucky you, to have your mom by your side.... !!! Regards
This is really very emotional.We see them in reel life .Very rarley , we come across who goes thru it in real life.Even though , she is no longer with you, I am very sure that you are in deep in her heart and there might not be a single moment when she does not think of you - as a TRUE FRIEND. I wish you all the good luck with your life I sincerly hope that you you both meet atleast once.
Re: Wow !
by sadiq ali on Feb 13, 2013 06:26 PM
Dear Suresh Thank you for your comments.Yes, even though it is my deep down desire to meet her in this life but not at the cost of bringing any unpleasent situation in her life...I could be happy to lead rest of my life thinking and wishing wherever she is , she should be HAPPY...It does not matter even if she does not remember me at all....
hello Sadiq! i am so glad to to read ur story. ur thoughts r awesome, u r a true man to understand a woman.
Women have a lot of things onto their minds and need not express them always. something need to be understood, may b she had some problems and she suffered them alone without making u part of u, if she had confessed, may b she wud have gained sympathy which she did not want. No woman wants sympathy, all she wants is care and trust. which u gave her.
Good luck for ur future. i am touched with ur story
Re: i am touched with ur story
by sadiq ali on Feb 13, 2013 06:34 PM
Dear Takiya Thank you for your comments, Appreciate your views, i understand , generally women are more mature in their thinking compared to men in that age. I am happy at least i stood by her side ( May be unknowingly)when she needed someone by her side.
Re: i am touched with ur story
by sadiq ali on Feb 13, 2013 06:35 PM
Dear Takiya Thank you for your comments, Appreciate your views, i understand , generally women are more mature in their thinking compared to men in that age. I am happy at least i stood by her side ( May be unknowingly)when she needed someone by her side.
Re: i am touched with ur story
by sadiq ali on Feb 13, 2013 06:35 PM
Dear Takiya Thank you for your comments, Appreciate your views, i understand , generally women are more mature in their thinking compared to men in that age. I am happy at least i stood by her side ( May be unknowingly)when she needed someone by her side.
This is a very quaint yet confusing story where only the writer's side has been presented?
Also, it is not clear why this girl started crying?
The writer acknowledges that he too does not know why she cried?
This situation leaves the real reason for her crying up for speculations such as was the friendship purely platonic in her mind and the writer's non-platonic overture came as a shock to the girl OR did the girl belong to a different religious background than the writer and only befriended the writer out of fear since, as the writer's name suggests, he belongs to the "most peaceful" religion following community OR was the girl only temporarily visually impaired and realized the "mistake" she had made by "befriending" the writer when her visual faculties were restored?
Re: Very quaint yet confusing story
by sadiq ali on Feb 13, 2013 06:41 PM
Hi Clint You have done very intersting analysis..even though it has baffled me but still i respect your views as this is public platform and you are entitled to your opinion. Good luck in your life mate...
i think the lady was in a turmoil and you were unlucky not to get an understanding lady as your partner. but you are a cool dude, and you had good support from your mother. you certainly took it well, and never pushed her into revealing her actual story - which would have been painful. in the end it did end well for her.
men in our society have more privileges than women in a certain way. but hats off to you well played sir!
Re: both played their roles well
by sadiq ali on Feb 13, 2013 06:45 PM
Thank you Buddy..You understood it so rightly..Shows your good upbringing and your outlook towards life. Nice to read your comment mate. Cheers...
She definitely didnt trust you as a friend, why wouldnt a good friend open her heart to you? Honesty and Trust are the distinguishing factors between friends and acquaintances. Yes, she was going through a hard time and maybe she needed a bit of confidence and companionship (platonic i assume)but not being honest 7 not being in touch thereafter simply talks volumes of what you meant to her? If I was you, wont bother thinking about her too much.
Re: Not a real friend
by sadiq ali on Feb 07, 2013 06:11 PM
Hello Mate... You are right in expressing your views...maybe you are right from your percpective...I have no arguments...in reality whatever might be the reasoning, but the time spent with her was the best time and i will always cherrish those moments...The feeling of being love is something oNe has to only experience as it can not be described.Lastly, i do not want to argue but has this strong conviction that i was not just a TIME PASS FRIEND...to her. This will be an insult to her and her feelings....I still believe that SHE had her own reasons and fears for not telling me the truth...Anyways, it does not matter...
Re: Re: Not a real friend
by Takiya Genji on Feb 08, 2013 01:16 PM
hello Sadiq! i am so glad to to read ur story. ur thoughts r awesome, u r a true man to understand a woman.
Women have a lot of things onto their minds and need not express them always. something need to be understood, may b she had some problems and she suffered them alone without making u part of u, if she had confessed, may b she wud have gained sympathy which she did not want. No woman wants sympathy, all she wants is care and trust. which u gave her.
Good luck for ur future. i am touched with ur story
Re: Re: Not a real friend
by sudhir kumar on Feb 08, 2013 05:36 AM
Sadiq I appreciate your true love. First love is always special. She obviously didnt behave like a normal girl. I know u love her so much that u want to hear only good things about her. Knowing girls I say they wil be the first to tel the problems while guys are the ones who hide the problems showing they are real man. I am glad u moved on with your life. Love was wonderful but u have a amazing life waiting you. Good u good path of not being a devdas and move on with life. good luck to you.
Re: Re: Re: Not a real friend
by sadiq ali on Feb 13, 2013 06:48 PM
Dear Sudhir Thank you for your comments, i appreciate your views. My best regards and good wishes to you always. Cheers
Re: Re: Not a real friend
by prabir sengupta on Feb 08, 2013 12:27 AM
Sadiq, don't get hurt with the yankee's comment. Thats the problem of our generation who neither understand the depth of feelings, nor the magnitude of love. Every relation is a fast tracking time pass for them. What you had or still have is a great touch of humanity, respect for other's privacy and individuality. You are a great human being and hats off to you.
Re: these types of stories always touch my heart
by sadiq ali on Feb 07, 2013 06:02 PM
Sir Thank you for your comments,Definitely i do not roam around in streets like a jilted lover but i still cherrish every moment i spent with her.Whatever might be her complusions but i never ever felt filted nor i cursed her ever as she is someone who was and will always remain as someone special....No hard feelings...Always wish her loads of happiness and good health...
Re: Re: these types of stories always touch my heart
by Arzu Azmi on Feb 10, 2013 04:11 PM
Respect ur feelings,hw i wish all men had feelings and respect for women like you have,best wishes for ur future.
Re: Re: Re: these types of stories always touch my heart
by sadiq ali on Feb 13, 2013 07:01 PM
Dear Arzu Thank you for your comments, i am honoured. Cheers..
