True. It's never a good time to lose a loved one. A Mother is the best of blessings God bestows upon us. They love us unconditionally. They give us hope, courage, strength. They make us feel good. We believe Jannat (Paradise) is beneath Mom's feet. It's been over 13 years since I lost her. God has blessed me abundantly but the greatest of the wealths (mom) I do not possess. I miss her much. I know she'll be in the upper echelons of paradise. I need to excel here in this life to join her there Inshallah.
Dear Brothers & Sisters - Those of ya who are still fortunate enough to be blessed with your mom's presence, please please relish the blessing & take good care of her. A lifetime of serving would't equate to those moments of anguish she went thru when she carried you in her womb, nursed & raised you to be what you're today.
Dear Balvinder and all of us who've lost their mothers,
If there is any regret in my life its that I lost my mother and was not around her when she left for her heavenly abode. It happened all of a sudden. had spoken to her on the phone for half-an-hour just 6 hours before she suffered a massive cardiac attack & passed away. Its true parents never pass away-if we close our eyes and think of them we will always feel their presence. Never overlook or try to get away from the fact that parents aren't anymore physically around us-rather try and feel their presence-that's more comforting than getting away from them. So see to it that any form of obeisance rituals in the form of Shradh etc; are never ever missed come any thing. If there is any important decision for any of us to take-we can sit silently and in our minds converse with our parents-believe me they will respond for sure, at least in that early morning dream very soon.
One more thing I would like to conclude is that our parents are the last of India's generation since times immemorial that have been so religious, adhering to customs, practices and traditional celebrations of all occasions for we, in our 30's or younger are a mixed product of age old ways of life and economic and social liberalisation that has set in our country since 1990's.
There never has been, nor can there be a greater relation between two humans than that of a mother and her child-all other relations take a backseat. A salute to all mother
Dear Brother, She died out of an ailment. I lost my mother to a fire accident on a diwali day in 2011. I saw her burn around 50% in front of my eyes. My burnt hands still reminding me of that dreadful day. I too felt she will survive and not be orphoned but fate had other things in store. Mother is gone leaving me a vagabond. My cute, soft spoken mother, who could take all pains in life with a smile lost it in the last two days she survived after the incident. She never smiled i.e after the 26th of october 2011. Even today when she comes in my dreams I never see her smile.
Today's indian constitution don't want to see this kind of affection and love among family members.
So, it has given many cruel biased laws like section-498a, and DV act to unscroupolous daughter-in-laws those assist in isolating all mothers and fathers from their sons.
Balvinder Singh, your story reminded me of my mom's death this June. I can share your pain because I have gone exactly through the same experience what you have undergone for your mother
I never though my mother would die and leave me Everyday I curse myself unable to do anything and watch her die painfully and being helpless about it
Only diff is that you could see your dead mom's face - I could not (being in US)
Take care bro. Your story reminded me of my mom's story. Very same. Thanks for touching my heart. God bless.
Fellow friend i feel sorry for your mothers sad demise.Your heart touching narration , bring tears to my eyes. I cant imagine myself without my mother. U are right, mothers never dies.
