Adolescent is the most crucial stage of life span. Parents need to take up the responsibility of the overall development of their children. The crisis these adolescent go thru needs attention, parents need to understand their children, speak to them. I have experienced parents find the most convenient solution to these issues, they send their children to hostels believing all his problems would be taken care off by the hostel management. I suggest parents that no body else but YOU can be your child's best friend.
This problem can be solved by developing parents and childrens Intellect (not Integellence)and to know their own SELF within. Very few know about Intellect and SELF.
as a grand father of a very intelligent boy, i some times get confused. if he has his way, he is not matured enough to understand right or wrong. we advise with our mind which may be many years behind. i feel every school should have classes or training for child and parents and also free and frank discussion , though it is difficult with most parents. and also how to protect him from this ideological pollution.
Re: adolescent
by Aditya Misra on Sep 10, 2012 05:20 PM
It is not just a question of protecting him... it is more important that a teenaged child must be given an assurance that come what may... we are with you always, as a family, we will never abandon you, A right mix of affection, love, reprimand and guidance is needed. We must believe them and should make them comfortable believing us.that is more important.
Today's parents are giving too much a free hand to the teens of today... In fact by letting them free, thye are actually making themselves free from the responsibility of taking care of their children... Teens are told you have grown up, and you must learn to manage ur life, tajke ur decisions, do not ask for spoon feeding and all that stuff. But they forget a teen is still having a child's mind and heart. We ask them to face the failures and be brave.. those who are not able to face the failures with Bravity, feel ost and commit suicide... Parents though let them free, but if the child (teen) fails, they blame him/her as if he has robbed them of something... Parents beware... wake up to the reality... teens are children,
Our media force the readers for body show, extra marital relations, illicit sexual relationship, LAVISH LIFE, NECESSITY OF costly Gadgets, costly dresses etc. There result in suicide, murder, prostitution , flesh marketing etc. Kudos to the brother and sisters of sunny Leone who instead of giving news give views rather advocate for nudity and extra marital relationships, they glorify prostitutes.
Re: Media Person is main culprit.
by ALI JEDDY on Sep 10, 2012 01:34 PM
Dude you are right this same media will highlight immoral and vulgar issues for their business and make the young minds corrupt.
