We are all human beings and unique with our choices and thoughts. even if we love our spouses or partners,a perfect love is not practically possible and we need to accept this fact.This is the mantra for a happy life.
True love is attained only when we feel the mind is full of compassion to the other without any return attached to it. What if the other demands something from you? is it not the prerogative of the other to in me. I shall have no reservations to accommodate in time is itself a true love out of affection and nothing else.