yes,govt will go to NASA soon to find out how to collect rubbish and dispose regularly. (Manmohan: wow! you mean it can be done by Indians! incredible ! )
Re: Re: legalise prost/t/tution
by Dev on Dec 21, 2012 05:05 PM
what do you mean? when arrangd marriages are done girl has right to say NO and frequently does so. also girls parents can say no
Re: Re: Re: Re: legalise prost/t/tution
by Dev on Dec 21, 2012 05:23 PM
she dosent have to say yes,dude.if family is poor ,then parents will try to force girl but normally she has total right to reject. its not rape if they like each other. what is "love" ? if you had to choose from 1000 pretty girls , you would fall in "love" with atleast 10
Re: Re: Re: Re: legalise prost/t/tution
by Dev on Dec 21, 2012 05:26 PM
i personally dont like arranged marriages. its a system that has flaws but seems to work in many cases
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by vijay M on Dec 21, 2012 05:43 PM
It works because of compromise by girls who adjust to the wishes of men. In Indian culture, women are treated like 2nd class citizens so women accept arranged marriages like its their fate. Only some women are happy.
Re: Re: Re: Re: legalise prost/t/tution
by Santa on Dec 21, 2012 09:39 PM
Weird logic. So what you are saying is that a girl has to sleep with 20 different guys to figure out who really loves her and cares for her? What I have generally observed is that many so-called love marriages end up in divorce. I can confirm this because two of my cousins have already gone that route. In one case, his wife was not ready to take care of the kids and wanted to lead a "free" life. In the second case my cousin (the male) was continuing with his affairs with other girls whom he was "sampling" before marriage :-) On the other hand, you can find lot of committment and responsibility between the couple of an arranged marriage, most probably because families on both sides got involved and bonded together. Whether you call it a compromise or anything else, it has worked well for generations and it would definitely work in future.
Re: Re: legalise prost/t/tution
by Santa on Dec 21, 2012 09:45 PM
Weird logic. So what you are saying is that a girl has to sleep with 20 different guys to figure out who really loves her and cares for her? What I have generally observed is that many so-called love marriages end up in divorce. I can confirm this because two of my cousins have already gone that route. In one case, his wife was not ready to take care of the kids and wanted to lead a "free" life. In the second case my cousin (the male) was continuing with his affairs with other girls whom he was "sampling" before marriage :-) On the other hand, you can find lot of committment and responsibility between the couple of an arranged marriage, most probably because families on both sides got involved and bonded together. Whether you call it a compromise or anything else, it has worked well for generations and it would definitely work in future.
While the entire country is shocked & outraged on the incident of gang rape, we are inviting jerks like Hugh Hefner and instigating & stimulating the lower class to recommit the heinous crimes like rape. Say no to playboy!
Re: Shame on Indians!!!
by jena ban on Dec 21, 2012 07:22 PM
@Jerry Playboy clob is only for the upper class. With this I think rapes committed by the upper class will drop significantly. Please look at the bright side.
i thought the bunnies were going to wear an indian version of bunny dress.. but they are wearing western dress..they should wear this western dress,it looks better.
Re: Sanjay
by Santa on Dec 21, 2012 03:40 PM
Agreed. UrvashiSharma's husband also looks like a contractor who hires and gets the work done by rag pickers. I simply can't digest the sight of those two together.
