livein for loser couple..no guts to marry... our parents never lived in before marriage..but marriage worked..Indians don't need a livein because we can make our marriage work.. livein culture is westernised loser culture
I insisted that Couples who take flat for ental must bring Marraige certificates...Why? Some Boys change their live in partner in two months,once a lady stayed there was from Pakisthan,and the police came after the couples left..
After all headsches to be borne by president,secreatary and managing committe..and In AGM you are forced to hear unpleasnat comments from member of the society
What are trying to say? Do you think whatever you mentioned here is correct? No sir. We have a culture that is broadly the Hindu culture. We do not have to follow the western culture. They can screw up wherever they want. Tell me what the essence of a marriage. Mutual respect, understanding, sharing and support which is a part of Indian culture. The main reason For most of the live in relationships is lust without any responsibility and botheration. They can walk out any time without any hindrance and difficulty. They can always invite any partner to calm down their lust. Please Rediff stop such nonsensical articles which will not do any good to the society or make Muslim Personal Law compulsory where you can marry as many you want and leave them with the repeat of one word three times.
Re: Live-in relationships
by shafras rahman on Apr 21, 2012 04:11 PM
Trying to say the fact and the truth. Marriage is such a great instituion that you need guts and a mantality for sacrifice. But those who dont possess it, let them go their way and take it what is in store for them - whether good or bad? you are going to stop them? how?
Re: Re: Live-in relationships
by pooja wadhwani on Apr 21, 2012 04:17 PM
u guys r too much, hindu culture,muslim culture, north culture ,south culture, eastern culture ,western culture????????/so many names created for narrow minded lots to enslave human beings in one or another way.
Re: Re: Re: Live-in relationships
by jaweed shaikh on Jan 07, 2014 11:40 AM
Pooja Cultures have nothing to do with religion, cultures are man made, yes if you are speaking about religion try to find original one on your own. Just a clue to find one, if you have the quest for it, you will reach it. Else live life king-size.
Re: Re: Re: Live-in relationships
by John Smith on Jan 17, 2015 12:37 AM
I agree, too much culture. But it is also not about "narrow mindset". It is just being wise. And live-in doesn't seem wise. It's just a trial run for people with low confidence and more freedom.
Re: Live-in relationships
by Kathir Krishnamurthi on Jan 06, 2014 06:40 PM
Most and let me put it all my western friends hols the same view and live by the same ideals you believe in. The culture of irresponsiblity practiced in the West is not sanctioned as much much as we are made to believe.
NO NEED TO MAKE SUCH A BUZZ OVER THIS ISSUE...IT S QUITE NATURAL THA OLDER GENERATIONS CANNOT ACCEPT SUCH CHANGES, AND THEY ARE ALSO RIGHT FROM THEIR SIDE... OUR GENERATION SHALL BE SHOCKED ALSO ANS SHALL DO THE SAME THING, WHEN THE NEXT GEENRATION TAKES THIS TO THE "NEXT NEXT LEVEL". DONT BE SO SURPRISED IF YOUR DAUGHTER SAYS - "I AM GOING TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH MY GIRLFIREND" OR " I AM CONCEIVING THE SPERM OF AN SOME GENUIS GUY" OR " WE ARE GOING TO LIVE IN WITH ANOTHER COUPLE".....START TO LEARN TO ACCEPT IT...
Re: DONT BE SURPRISED!!
by Arun Kumar on Apr 21, 2012 03:52 PM
So u accept ur wife being in live-in relation with some other guy already??? ur great guru
Re: DONT BE SURPRISED!!
by vivekanandan shankar on Apr 21, 2012 04:07 PM
yes, what will you tell your relations if your daughter was "living in" with X for three months, Y for two years and then Z for another 6 months. will you feel proud and boast among your relations that your daughter has been living with three different persons within 4 years. what a great achievement
Re: Re: DONT BE SURPRISED!!
by shafras rahman on Apr 21, 2012 04:26 PM
It not a matter of your or mine...was telling, rather warning about the possibility of such occurence. And was telling those one who support live -in , not to be surprised if something happens as you told above. and not to be a moral police then...
Is this article meant to encourage this kind of relationship which by all means is against the norms of society and morality. What kind of signal is intended for the young generation which is thriving with financial independence and self reliance.
