Re: MARRIAGE SYSTEM is A TOTAL FAILURE
by pat thakur on Nov 05, 2011 01:31 PM
Why live-in also? Whenever in the mood, just dial-a-number for either a female or male, get it done, pay & off you go. Finish!!!
Re: Re: MARRIAGE SYSTEM is A TOTAL FAILURE
by Just Fun on Nov 06, 2011 05:21 PM
yes dial-a-number is very modern and updated thing of live in relationship
it has been proven that about 70 % of those who enroll in matrimony sites are those who couldnt find a 'mate' the normal way (by family connections, by dating etc). So basically we are talking about people who are technically "overage", have some complication in life etc etc.
In either of these circumstances, they pretty much have to accept what they get. They dont have too much scope to choose.
Re: These stats are incorrect because...
by greatbihar on Nov 05, 2011 12:24 PM
It has been found that only 10% people are happily married, rest are just in marriage due to socity pressure. It does not matter whether you are married through matrimony sites or by family connection.
I am not satisfied by my husband , I am travelling with some one , taking foreign gifts from some one , talking to someone , enjoying with some one My meeting with my B/F on 3rd September , 21st December , 16th Feberuary was fantastic. I can not my B/F who changed my life . I am slipping on one floor having sweet memories of my B/F . my hubby is slipping on other floor fully drunk .He smokes a lot , drinks a lot . do not care at all about the future of my two young sons
Re: I love my all milan days with my B/F
by greatbihar on Nov 05, 2011 12:25 PM
you are not alone. It has been found that only 10% people are happily married. Now a days girls are become overamibitious and don't care about any moral values.
Re: Re: I love my all milan days with my B/F
by mallaiah anchoori on Nov 06, 2011 04:52 PM
Take your hubby to a psychiatrist & an anti drug/alcohol addiction centre.Getting him reformed through approved & legal means is always desirable & right than to have extra marital relations with a boy friend who certainly throws you into the junk when he feels bored & abhorred of you.There are several wives like you fed up & vexed with their husbands,but seldom they resort to extra marital relations which end up very badly.When once their (boy friends') infatuation ends-rather their sexual urges are satisfied,the relationship no longer stands.On the other hand,after some time,both try to avoid each other.It is the relationship between a wife & husband only that is the strongest,ever lasting & enduring. Marriage,after all,is a matter of adjustment & compromise too.If you sincerely try,you will certainly succeed in getting your hubby much reformed leading to total happiness in your life.Your boy friend is a myth while your hubby a real reality.The husband & wife relationship is a sacred one & withstands all the odds of life provided you have will power & patience.You should at least care for the future of your growing two sons.At least for their sake,you should put an end to your desires/wants for materialistic pleasures, stop your affair with your boy friend & make all out efforts to mend your husband.Do not spoil your life with your own hands.
Re: Re: Re: I love my all milan days with my B/F
by ashok chere on Nov 07, 2011 09:16 AM
you must be a christian. only christian values speak like this. others all chalta hai.
Re: Re: Re: Re: I love my all milan days with my B/F
by mallaiah anchoori on Nov 07, 2011 10:37 AM
No Ashok !I am not!What I suggested is the most scientific & correct way.On the other hand what you say,at times,applies to Christains.
Re: Re: I love my all milan days with my B/F
by mallaiah anchoori on Nov 06, 2011 04:52 PM
Take your hubby to a psychiatrist & an anti drug/alcohol addiction centre.Getting him reformed through approved & legal means is always desirable & right than to have extra marital relations with a boy friend who certainly throws you into the junk when he feels bored & abhorred of you.There are several wives like you fed up & vexed with their husbands,but seldom they resort to extra marital relations which end up very badly.When once their (boy friends') infatuation ends-rather their sexual urges are satisfied,the relationship no longer stands.On the other hand,after some time,both try to avoid each other.It is the relationship between a wife & husband only that is the strongest,ever lasting & enduring. Marriage,after all,is a matter of adjustment & compromise too.If you sincerely try,you will certainly succeed in getting your hubby much reformed leading to total happiness in your life.Your boy friend is a myth while your hubby a real reality.The husband & wife relationship is a sacred one & withstands all the odds of life provided you have will power & patience.You should at least care for the future of your growing two sons.At least for their sake,you should put an end to your desires/wants for materialistic pleasures, stop your affair with your boy friend & make all out efforts to mend your husband.Do not spoil your life with your own hands.
I am not satisfied by my husband , I am travelling with some one , taking foreign gifts from some one , talking to someone , enjoying with some one My meeting with my B/F on 3rd September , 21st December , 16th Feberuary was fantastic. I can not my B/F who changed my life . I am slipping on one floor having sweet memories of my B/F . my hubby is slipping on other floor fully drunk .He smokes a lot , drinks a lot . do not care at all about the future of my two young sons
If one makes a survey one will find that in India males will go for pretty women and females will go for a person who has got money. This is genetic factor amonng humans so no hard feelings. According to John Hopkins institute a person should first be spiritual, then mentally sound, then develop physically and then build materialistic assets. Then only the marriage will be sound.
It is very difficult to generalise such things since much depends upon the approach & attitude of an individual love/lover.Those with materialistic outlook certainly bother for the earnings of its partner while those concerned with good looks naturally select a beautiful/handsome partners.Yet there is another type of lovers who weigh more for the qualities,character,conduct & concern for others in their partner;these will naturally prefer a value based partner-any amount of good looks or the money brought by their life partner would not convince them.These are the true lovers whose love does not fade with time but would grow more & more as time passes.But I am sure that such a love bird is difficult to come across these days of materialism & money.