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13 must-follow etiquettes in spoken communication


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Al Ringer
India is the Best
by Al Ringer on Jun 01, 2011 05:36 AM  | Hide replies

Indians are very good communicators. They think clearly. They speak clearly. It is easy to follow what they are saying. Also, they very clearly document everything and neatly file them for future references.

I rarely see problems with Indian communication.

Americans, British, Canadians, Turkeys, Russian and Tibet people must learn a lot from Indians in this regard.

Jai Hind

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Ramkishore S
Re: India is the Best
by Ramkishore S on Dec 01, 2014 12:21 PM
Ah....then you aren't Indian.

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Rajeev Venkat
Re: India is the Best
by Rajeev Venkat on Jun 01, 2011 01:27 PM
But Indians have a horrible habit of head nodding without right context... They give the same nod for a Yes & a No.. which is extremely confusing at times even to a person like me who understand mannerisms well enough....

Nevertheless,
Jai Hind

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Siddhu ism
Re: Re: India is the Best
by Siddhu ism on Jun 01, 2011 01:42 PM
universally true about indians unless they are taught not to do so

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NazaN Hussain
Re: India is the Best
by NazaN Hussain on Jun 02, 2011 07:01 AM
Bro! Very well said..thanks for the motivational feeling provided :) You presented well without putting down anyone else ..thnx

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Harish Manwani
Re: India is the Best
by Harish Manwani on Nov 25, 2014 12:50 PM
Boss, there are good and bad communicators everywhere. Why do you have to bring India and the world into this? It's just a simple article on communication...not about nationalism!

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Guru
When you are in office , speak in official business language
by Guru on Jun 01, 2011 12:05 AM  | Hide replies

When you are in office , speak in official business language . I have come across many times that people from different part India speak in a different language in staff meeting . In my team there are bunch of guys from North , so always chat in Hindi , funniest part is there are 3 American's in team who won't understand single world .

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Alex
Re: When you are in office , speak in official business language
by Alex on Jun 01, 2011 01:09 PM
Hindi is our national language dear.

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Siddhu ism
Re: Re: When you are in office , speak in official business langu
by Siddhu ism on Jun 01, 2011 01:29 PM
Then why not you post your comment in Hindi here

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Harish Manwani
Re: Re: When you are in office , speak in official business langu
by Harish Manwani on Nov 25, 2014 12:53 PM
But it's rude to speak in a language the person with you doesn't understand when you know the other guy's language. It's got nothing to do with national and international business - it's just common sense and decency. In every issue why do you want to bring in this national language business is beyond me...

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Sachin
have a soft voice
by Sachin on May 31, 2011 12:47 PM  | Hide replies

One of the things I have noticed,is that Indians usually talk loudly, even in ameeting room where is is not very difficult for the person sitting far to hear.I dont know if this is right or wrong but I personally dont like this.

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IMTIAZ KHAN
Re: have a soft voice
by IMTIAZ KHAN on May 31, 2011 07:32 PM
Not only that, but the biggest draw back is we dont listen. When we pause, it is not to hear the others view point, but we are thinking what to say next.

We are like this in our general communication. The same will be noticed on our TV channels. The anchor asks a question and before the other answers, he or she is interrupted. Watch BBC or other foreign channels, they ask well considered questions and allow the interlocuter the time to reply.

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iota
Re: Re: have a soft voice
by iota on Jun 01, 2011 08:08 AM
well said. good observation.

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Prahlad Kakkari
Re: Re: have a soft voice
by Prahlad Kakkari on Jun 01, 2011 12:17 PM
This primarily happens because we Indians are more opinionated and would want to express them as early/fast as we can. Sorry for my opinion on your comment.

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Sans S
Re: Re: have a soft voice
by Sans S on Jun 01, 2011 12:51 PM
You said it right on our channels. The classic ex. is Barkha Dutt of NDTV. She asks questions and does not let the other person complete his/her question. Despite being named in big scams, she is still arrogant.

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Balaji
Re: Re: have a soft voice
by Balaji on Nov 25, 2014 12:48 PM
Well Said!!! I was about to type a comment on listening and saw yours !!!!

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lakubo
Most important etiquette of communication
by lakubo on May 31, 2011 11:45 AM  | Hide replies

NEVER EVER LIE, rest of the things will fall in place in long term.

If you want short term gain then be make believe character with fake etiquettes.

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Krishna Nandan
Re: Most important etiquette of communication
by Krishna Nandan on May 31, 2011 04:41 PM
i dont lie but i make girls lie in my bed for the night... LOL

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iota
Re: Re: Most important etiquette of communication
by iota on Jun 01, 2011 08:09 AM
hahaha

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Siddhu ism
Re: Re: Most important etiquette of communication
by Siddhu ism on Jun 01, 2011 01:33 PM
good fantasy.
Lie and ensure that things fall in place.

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World Explorer
Re: Most important etiquette of communication
by World Explorer on May 31, 2011 09:25 PM
Its a wonderful advice, but this is not a philosophy subject!

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sam sam
Re: Most important etiquette of communication
by sam sam on May 31, 2011 04:27 PM
you are not indian ??

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Osborne Dias
Effective Communication
by Osborne Dias on May 31, 2011 11:17 AM  | Hide replies

Your writer needs many lessons in Effective Communication, of which the most important is to use short sentences because his long-winded complex sentences camaflouge the meaning he is trying to convey and the reader loses track midway.

SHOULD BE WRITTEN AS: -

Your writer himself needs many lessons in English Communication. But the most important is "Use short sentences". His long-winded complex sentences camaflouge the meaning he is trying to convey. The reader loses track in between.

Prof. Maewest S. Dias

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West Indian
Re: Effective Communication
by West Indian on May 31, 2011 11:50 AM
That's perfect. You're dot on the spot Sir.

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samji s
Re: Effective Communication
by samji s on May 31, 2011 11:47 AM
Mr.Prof. Maewest S. Dias
Why didnt u write this article? It is very esay to find out some one's mistakes.

You sound to have great knowledge which is waste whthout sharing it.

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IMTIAZ KHAN
Re: Re: Effective Communication
by IMTIAZ KHAN on May 31, 2011 07:35 PM
This is the other problem with Indians. Never appreciate what is good. Always try to pull the other person down.

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Raimer Rainer
Re: Effective Communication
by Raimer Rainer on May 31, 2011 01:58 PM
Sorry to disrupt you professor, but apart from the several mistakes in your example, you got the spelling of "camouflage" wrong.

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Raimer Rainer
Re: Re: Effective Communication
by Raimer Rainer on May 31, 2011 02:03 PM
I saw some senior managers working in my company. They would type fanciful spellings of words and then do a Word spellcheck. However, this has its own pitfalls. Once "defection" was changed to "defecation" by the spellcheck and the manager passed it on as he did not know how to spell both the words.

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IMTIAZ KHAN
Re: Effective Communication
by IMTIAZ KHAN on May 31, 2011 07:33 PM
Very nice

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Arun Premraj
sdfsdf
by Arun Premraj on May 31, 2011 11:16 AM  | Hide replies

indians come last in vocal and verbal etiquette

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Tom Dick
Re: sdfsdf
by Tom Dick on May 31, 2011 11:26 AM
Spitting on the road, defacating and urinating in the open, talking, eating loud,using others property ...are all part of our etiquette !

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True Voice
Re: Re: sdfsdf
by True Voice on May 31, 2011 11:34 AM
In a given situation like this, you too would do it. Hope you heard about those plain crash victims ate dead bodies of fellow passengers because there was nothing else to eat. India is overpopulated and everyone come to city expecting prosperity. The country is not so rich to accomodate their basic needs and facilities. Go to some villages in Kerala and see how wonderful they are. Every one has a big house and happy with less PCI.

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Tom Dick
Re: Re: Re: sdfsdf
by Tom Dick on May 31, 2011 11:55 AM
I live in Kerala ! However, we need to make the whole of India beautiful and that can happen only if there is a change in our attitude.

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Nagendra Nayak
Re: Re: Re: Re: sdfsdf
by Nagendra Nayak on May 31, 2011 07:58 PM
go to gulf & earn attitude?

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Tom Dick
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: sdfsdf
by Tom Dick on May 31, 2011 08:33 PM
Run to USA and work in supermarket? or Mumbai or Delhi....

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rajeev tiwari
language
by rajeev tiwari on May 31, 2011 10:11 AM  | Hide replies

when we express our sentiments language is only media while professionally we improve with time with little practice and there are ettiquettes for recognition of contributions of students by concluding it with right plateforms to begin a new life after continuous self development

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trk
Re: language
by trk on May 31, 2011 05:38 PM
plateforms?

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satyendra chauhan
Re: language
by satyendra chauhan on May 31, 2011 10:29 AM
where is ur coaching centre???

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Subrata Das
Re: Re: language
by Subrata Das on May 31, 2011 10:49 AM
This is exactly the gibberish the article exhorts us not to succumb to

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GOPALAKRISHNA MN
Re: language
by GOPALAKRISHNA MN on May 31, 2011 10:35 AM
what do you want to say exactly?

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muhammed shakil
Re: language
by muhammed shakil on May 31, 2011 11:09 AM
I think you want to say platforms, as u might be hungry u wrote Plateform. Hungry Kya?

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Alex
Re: Re: language
by Alex on Jun 01, 2011 01:11 PM
remove your first name pls

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Harish Manwani
Re: language
by Harish Manwani on Nov 25, 2014 12:56 PM
Tiwariji, what is this gitopadesh you are putting up here - it sounds like theory of relativity

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