In this day and age of overpopulation,global warming,severe pollution,overcrowdedness, highly and extremely competitive world where inspite of having lots of money there is no guarantee of success,and the general decline of values and goodness in society where there is cheating in every aspect of society like education,job market,governance etc,all of these clearly indicates that world has turned into a garbage can.
So do you really want to bring your child into this world(garbage can)
Re: Being born into this kind of world??
by raman patil on May 24, 2011 03:24 PM
you are such a loser , pesimistic person. the topic is such an emotional and where have u taken it. suggest you should leave this world as its such a bad place as you are not able to adjust here and you can do nothing to change it and just crip over.
These moments are magical. One never forgets and replays in our minds often; gets to love unconditionally, without looking for returns and also love your partner more. It is finally a give and take. I have also seen some, sadly, unable to enjoy the moments. Only yesterday, I was in a bus and I saw a father not interested in answering the bubbly daughter's endless questions. He was lost in thoughts.
There are always ups and downs in life which makes it also worthwhile. But ENJOY THE MOMENTS! At the end of the day, these moments should give one a nice farewell. One can forget all the reverses and hurts. It is finally, a state of the mind. All money earned will be left behind but we can leave with sweet memories!
Most young males tend to get excited when the terms "naked woman" are uttered. For the scientifically minded, or for the curious, I suggest watching delivery videos on Youtube.
When you see that you will learn to respect your mother, wife, sister and all other women on the street
The kind of embarrassment and pain they go through just to become mothers (imagine men having a corresponding male monthly cycle of secretions) and then the efforts they out for 20 or 25 years to take you to marriage to another woman who then takes over feeding you.
This is brought home quite clearly by those delivery videos on youtube. It is really educational to see and imagine the unique kind of hardships that women face in being mothers.
Re: Just a note
by Z X on May 23, 2011 01:51 PM
there is nothing to be embarassed about for women in the labour pain & birth giving. They are life givers and nurturers.
Re: Re: what about us
by Pat Thakur on May 21, 2011 01:52 PM
Why? I'll put mine here. My child arrived after two day's interminable wait. When my wife started feeling the pangs one morning, we called up the gynaec & went to his hospital. We waited till noon only to know it was a false alarm. We returned. Next day, the fluid trickled & signs were there. We called the gynaec & went again. But try as they might, even with injections, nothing was happening.
After a day's wait, the doctor said we have to operate or else the foetus faces danger if the fluid gets emptied. I signed on the line, albeit reluctantly at 2:00 night. Finally, my angel arrived at 4:00 morning, 2 hours later to releive us all. She's 'bout 10 years now.
well i dont know of of how to put the feelings in a story......but it is a HEAVENLY FEELING...having the just born kid in ur arms for the first time......i remember holding my new born daughter in my arms with a nothing more than a DUMB FEELING...my friend gynacologist doctor standing besides me, helping me hold the baby properly(to put a arm behind the bays head to hold it properly)....thats the UMTIMATE FEELING
