Re: what about those who are born on 15th april
by Ravi Singh on Mar 09, 2011 01:32 PM
please see the first page of the article aries (march 21 to apri 20).
"Respect me, because I am a woman", "Don't you know how to talk to a woman", these are some common dialogues often thrashed on men for reasons unknown. Women often use these dialogues to victimize men or to divert issues and more often than not the man is found innocent. But still the trick to victimize men works.
The reason for that is very simple - over-propaganda of women's issues and under-propaganda of men's issues that has led to acceptance of men's issues as a way of life whereas fighting for women's issues a way of life as well. As a result any attempt to create awareness about men's issues not only draws flak but also attempts are made to invalidate the same.
First and foremost the attempt to create awareness of men's issues has to GENDER NEUTRAL, irrespective of the fact whether the same attempt made for women's issues was GENDER NEUTRAL or not. It should be clearly explainable that when an attempt is being made to create awareness of any particular gender facing problem, it cannot be GENDER NEUTRAL and just way the attempt to create awareness about women's issues was not questioned on GENDER NEUTRALNESS, similarly that for men's issues should be left unquestioned in order to achieve true GENDER EQUALITY.
Aah, GENDER EQUALITY - another buzzword making rounds these days in order to run the shop of selling women's rights and buying men's rights - should be applied in letter and spirit everywhere. When
Re: Respect Human, Not Woman
by Tall Male on Mar 08, 2011 09:42 AM
a human being is respected merely because of the gender, chances are quite high, that the Gender will become lazy and incompetent the way women are becoming due to the over-pamperment showered unto them in the name of Women Empowerment.
Because they know, they have de-facto respect and do not need to work for respect. They may, however, work because of their own choice or to kill time. But the same is not with men. Nothing is free in a man's world. There is no concept of FREE LUNCH in a man's world. The man has to work to gain respect.
First of all, I disagree with the idea, "Respect me because I am a woman" in principle because that itself tells that we consider women to be weak or incompetent and that's why we give them de-facto unearned or rather better put as undeserved respect. And when a man is not respected merely for the fact that he is a MAN why a woman should be respected merely for the fact that she is a woman?
Such gender based radical histrionics lead to societal chaos - the way it is happening currently - people are confused between the boundaries of Conservativeness and Liberalism, between Women Protection and Women Pamperment, between Punishment of Criminals and Extortion of Innocents.
The day the society learns value based respect and respects an individual for being a human and not just Woman will lead the foundation of a sane society - one that everyone thrives for. RESPECT HUMAN and NOT WOMAN or MAN.
Re: Respect Human, Not Woman
by malik mukund on Mar 08, 2011 11:07 AM
The society had been dominated by men where the women lacked behind having great influence on society to. It better to change the mentality towards women and think in a positive way wherein man and woman are two tyres of cycle wherein if one stop cycling the cycle cannot move. Also the genes in man XY is 50% female, If you throw that 50% X chromosomes you will not be able to exist.
Re: Respect Human, Not Woman
by Tall Male on Mar 08, 2011 09:42 AM
a human being is respected merely because of the gender, chances are quite high, that the Gender will become lazy and incompetent the way women are becoming due to the over-pamperment showered unto them in the name of Women Empowerment.
Because they know, they have de-facto respect and do not need to work for respect. They may, however, work because of their own choice or to kill time. But the same is not with men. Nothing is free in a man's world. There is no concept of FREE LUNCH in a man's world. The man has to work to gain respect.
First of all, I disagree with the idea, "Respect me because I am a woman" in principle because that itself tells that we consider women to be weak or incompetent and that's why we give them de-facto unearned or rather better put as undeserved respect. And when a man is not respected merely for the fact that he is a MAN why a woman should be respected merely for the fact that she is a woman?
Such gender based radical histrionics lead to societal chaos - the way it is happening currently - people are confused between the boundaries of Conservativeness and Liberalism, between Women Protection and Women Pamperment, between Punishment of Criminals and Extortion of Innocents.
The day the society learns value based respect and respects an individual for being a human and not just Woman will lead the foundation of a sane society - one that everyone thrives for. RESPECT HUMAN and NOT WOMAN or MAN.
Feminists and Women Empowerment Brigade as well as Conservatives and Women Pamperers, all combined referred to as the Power Mongers, need to take a lesson or two from Uncle Ben, the fictitious character of the Hollywood flick who told Peter that, "With Power Comes Great Responsibility".
For, the way the Power Mongers are encouraging concessions for women at the cost of men, women are definitely getting a lot of power and have already got so much of power. Some examples of the manifestation of the power are:-
They have the power to take the choice of being a career-woman or a housewife. They have the power to break a marriage at their free will by filing false cases of harassment and fabricated desertion and walk off with a bounty called alimony. They have the power to influence their promotion without performing by threatening their managers of sexual harassment cases. They have the power to enjoy pre-martial/extra-marital sex as per their free will or otherwise file a false rape case. They have the power to abort their unborn child at free will and go scot-free. They have the power to commit adultery while being married and yet be rewarded for it, by being hailed as a victim. And so on and so forth, the list goes on. The current list is merely illustrative and not exhaustive of the various socio-economic and socio-legal powers that women enjoy. As the old adage goes, "Rome was not built in a day", these powers were not co
Re: Only Equality, No Responsibility
by malik mukund on Mar 08, 2011 11:47 AM
Are these your ideas. Hardly 1% women may misuse but 99% women will never do such acts. Women won't misuse their powers like men, to slain women with physical strength. You should take help of psychiatrist to come out of these illusions. Managers are the damagers for most of organisation misusing their powers. Men in link with each other crack stupid jokes on women and manage themselves to keep united. Women support men but will never unit with each other due to jealously. If women talks nicely to women the cheap mentality men such as peons & others from political point of view will start linking the women with bosses to bake their bread for promotion or to keep their jobs.
Re: Only Equality, No Responsibility
by Tall Male on Mar 08, 2011 09:35 AM
nferred on to the women in a stroke of lightening on the 29th day of February of a leap year. These powers have been conferred on them due to conscientiously planned and meticulously executed strategy of Power Mongers under the barb and paradoxical veil of Women Empowerment coupled with Gender Equality.
Hence we see here that it is actually power that is being conferred on women in the name of equality and any equality (read power) given without responsibility leads to imbalance (read misuse of power). And that is what is happening here. Since all the Power Mongers, have vouched for is Power for women in the name of equality and never ever for Responsibility. And now the message has been distorted and diluted to such an extent, that the very concept of responsibility has become condemnable to be talked of when it comes to Women and jeopardizes the efforts of Power Mongers to accumulate power for Women.
As a result of which the price is being paid by men, for it is they are the only ones who are left to shoulder the burden of added responsibility and the women have become so damn used to pamperment that they find it very natural to enjoy Power Sans Responsibility or better put as Equality Sans Responsibility, the crux of the current social imbalances and social problems. If this problem is addressed, a lot of problems will be solved and the choice rests with the society.
It is sad to hear that most women are misusing the provisions of law provided to them. Today in India , men suffer more than women. Women are misusing Dowry law , Domestic Violence act. Maintenance etc for personal vengeance. Most innocent bridegrooms are ignorant of such laws at the time of marriage.
Re: Re: Women in India are misusing the law.
by Sheetal Kaur on Mar 07, 2011 08:03 PM
Well since the dawn of earth women have been suffering and still do. It is high time to teach men a lesson that women means business. Women will not take any abuse any more. Those days are done dead and buried. Sooner the men learn that the better.
Re: Re: Re: Women in India are misusing the law.
by Tall Male on Mar 08, 2011 09:30 AM
Sheetal Kaur, since the beginning, it is actually men who have been made and forced to protect and provide for women while women were comfortable in the safety of their homes. Men's suicide rate is some 3-5 times more than women. Yet, nothing is done to rectify it. On the contrary, women are blaming men for everything. It is betrayal. It is feminazism at the worst. I condemn people like you. You should be shown your place!!!!
Re: Re: Re: Re: Women in India are misusing the law.
by ASIT ADAK on Mar 09, 2011 08:59 PM
CONDEMN IS A WORD IT SHOULD BE USE IN PROPER PLACE SOME TIME WE FORGET BUT IT HAVE USED SO THE REPORT WOMEN IN INDIA ARE MISUSING THE WORD HERE MAY IMPLEMENT.
Re: Women in India are misusing the law.
by Anamika on Mar 08, 2011 02:59 AM
Let the innocent bridegroom put his foot down when it comes to dowry, gifts, gold, silver etc....let him tell his parents, he doesnt want to be sold
Re: Re: Women in India are misusing the law.
by Tall Male on Mar 08, 2011 09:31 AM
Anamika, let women stop seeking well-settled and well-earning men. When man seeks money from women, its called dowry. But when women seeks money or well-earning men, its her right. This is called equality. My foot!!!
Re: Women in India are misusing the law.
by Anamika on Mar 08, 2011 03:02 AM
Men are not suffering more than women, but yes there are also lot of women who can be mean and selfish...in many cases, they are just voicing out injustice where a man thinks it is his 'duty' to keep quiet espec when it comes to any displeasure expressed by his wife regarding her rights in the family and in the society...women certainly are not ghungatwaalis or cows...and yea enough of saas bahu serials..
Re: Re: Women in India are misusing the law.
by Tall Male on Mar 08, 2011 09:27 AM
According to media and feminists like you, men have no sufferings. That is because of the inherent bias and vested agendas that you have. When women are mean and selfish, you call it "voicing our in justice". But when a man does it, he is to be condemned. This is called gender equality, according to you. Your equality is perverted and pro-women. As a man, I condemn it.
What is written is only very general.Billions of people must have been born under a particular zodiac sign which does not mean that whatever is predicted in general applies aptly or exactly to all of them.Much depends on the planetary position obtaining at the time & place of birth on a particular day. These need to be studied very meticulously with reference to the personal horoscope of an individual & then deductions be made accordingly.It is not wise to get swayed away by what is in general applicable to all people with such zodiac sign.Astrologers who are,of late, very commercial & just thrive on that profession try to mislead gullible few by all such predictions;one should be careful before deciding himself to get carried away by them.
