1. Ask before you kiss - Many Indian women are conservative and believe in giving the guy freedom to touch n kiss only after marriage. So better ask, or her sandal are gonna leave a footprint on your face.
2. Ask her out on a date - The gal may be viewing you as a friend, a workplace 'bro'...or mebbe just using u....or mebbe genuinely interested. Ask...if you 'suggest'....she may view you as a worthless flirt who didn't even bother to check whether she has any such intentions or not.
3. Don't have a plan in place - If you don't ask her what she'd like to do (better ask beforehand)...you'd just come across as a jerk who has no concern for what she'd like to do!
4. Do you like me is a 'yes-yes' - Indians don't date as in the West. So Indians actually have very limited time to get in a relationship, where the gal is not picked by parents. So getting a clear idea of where it's all headed is 'smart'
5. Ask why she didn't get back to you - She may be running low on talk time. She might be too shy. She might be expecting you to call instead....or who knows....some jerk might have knocked her down and sent to hospital! So better ask....but be prepared for rejection.
6. Don't play hard to get - Indians have limited time...remember??
7. Be predictable - Indians genetically have a very weak heart. If you are too unpredictable...she might die of the shock!
8. Bad mouth her male pals - Afterall, they are her "male pals" and not her
Re: Indian list, for the clueless
by r c on Oct 07, 2010 12:44 PM
Who ever this fellow is , who wrote this book ' Double Your Dating', should be given a one week ' Cultural SEnsitivity Training' ! LOL ! He thinks he's an authority on women ? I suspect, he had 2 or 3 divorces behind him ! heh heh !
Re: Indian list, for the clueless
by r c on Oct 07, 2010 12:42 PM
Dear Li Na. Your Indian 'Do s and Don't s' have dispelled the myth that, there is no universally correct way to ' pataao' a woman. Cultural sensitivies are to be considered. You've done a great job and hope it reaches the author. May be in his next addition, he won't talk as if , what he's written is The Oracle of Delphi !
Re: useless article
by V SR on Oct 06, 2010 06:54 PM
You are right. They are not suited for manjority of women in India. They are suited for those who wants ape anything in the name of western or modern.
