U will get good friends in ur college days and will keep it if both u not in same company... When friends in same company, pay, promotion & family creates a big division
Yes, In our college days we simply not facing the reality..When we starting to face, evryone starts to think about themselves (Only about children education, flat EMI, bills etc etc)...Then who has time or who will think about friends..
At this time friends only for parties, movies or weedend timepass...Not for any woory-sharing
Re: friend !!!
by Hoodibaba on May 14, 2010 07:41 PM
When you be a friend to another human being, sometimes you have to make minor adjustments and sacrifices. The same for any relationship. Which is why marriages done at young age of 20 - 23 has more chances of being a romantic success. This is the reason why vedic customs has child marriages. Adaptation to another family by bride and Groom happens seamlessly.
Westeners came, made everything barbaric, made us loathe our wisdom. Now career money and other comforts in life is given more importance than relationships. "Best" friends happen to be ones befriended at a very early age.
We may have gone lazy in not keeping in touch with school friends but lucky are the guys who managed to do. They will enjoy great everlasting friendship.
Re: Stay away from good-for-nothing friends !!!
by CAMPU COTIYA on May 11, 2010 04:54 PM
Once me n my bad friend went to a town nearby and then I had to urgently go elsewhere. My bad friend who knew driving didnt bring my vehicle back and I had to go n get it the next day.
It was pathetic. Till date he didnt think he betrayed me.
Life is such a wonderfull of God to waste on friends etc. It's a journey which should be completed with no epectations. U can have companions but permanant friends is not a good idea. It's hard to find Friend and IMPOSSIBLE to keep so better don't have . they come and feel you their presence and than leave ..............
Had two individuals as friends in military for friends..lived with them for 20 years ..faced inhuman challanges..then all got retired.. one got a salary of paltry rs. 4000 in a spiritual ashram for 5 years..I called him to my company..made him manager with Rs 5lac package..in next two months ..he got me kicked out of the company..what is worse when he heard the news of my termination..he started singing whenever he passed by my cubicle in office..
and the other one got employed in a software selling company..and had a blown up ego as though he became Bill Gates..
I will die wondering, was I a fool I my life that I could not recognise my friends for whom I could have given my blood at any given time..
Now..name for friendship is worse them animosity to me...
Re: my god , will I be anybody's friend ..anymore
by Jafferkhanksa on May 11, 2010 04:01 PM
Mahesh, I feel sorry for the situation you are facing now. Believe in destiny a day will come that they will eat their action and come to say sorry. it may also happen that they may get destroyed..
