This country has laws and opinions for specific gender , castes and religion. unfortunately we dont have anything which is applicable for all Human beings. Shame on the world oldest civilization.
Re: Rules ,Laws and opinion not for Humans..
by Surendra Daiwal on Jun 29, 2010 04:33 PM
Mr Ajit (uniformer), Pls give some examples of laws & contries where all these exist. Some time People comments not knowing anything over the issue, like it always said - "india me aisa hota h. bahar aisa nahi hota". Have all those person seen the rest world. Shame on such people for such faltoo comments.
Dear Guys, My wife and me are both working. Guys if you want peace (forget about happiness) in your married life follow the following rules, 01) Most important whatever jewellery she is having keep it in a separate locker in her own name. Maybe the locker can be in your joint name also. Never touch it under any circumstances. She should not get any opportunity to accuse you of miappropriating her jewellery. Even if you are in your death bed never touch it even if it is for your treatment. A women can live without food but not her jewellery. 02) Whatever money she earns keep it in a separate bank account. The bank account can however be joint. Your own money should also be in a separate bank account. There should not be any possibility of her accusing that you have spent her money without her knowledge. The ATM card and the cheque book give it to her. 03) If you want to exercise some control over her money so that she that she does not wastes her money on stupid things then do it indirectly. With her consent buy some insurance policies in her own name and make her pay her own premiums but make sure that the terms of the policy is such that it matures when she reaches 60 or above. In spite of the above if she spends / wastes money let her do it to at least maintain silence in the house if not happiness
Re: To all those guys who at least want a peaceful married life
by Kapil Sethi on Jun 29, 2010 05:32 PM
If you are going to save all the money for future, you are not enjoying it today, and you would never be able to enjoy it later also. India is full of crorepati's who would not spend 1 rupee on better lifestyle.
Re: To all those guys who at least want a peaceful married life
by startraveller on Jul 16, 2010 07:49 PM
You should be a female and is putting down what you want from a man.
Why will a man pay for all the expenses. Everything should be shared.
Re: To all those guys who at least want a peaceful married life
by Lakshmi Narayan on Jun 29, 2010 04:54 PM
It seems you have the tendency of the DUKHI AAADMI. Why, all woman are not same. cheer up you guy.
What is wrong if a guy invests his wife's money in a safe place or a bank or in mutual funds? Its the family and both husband and wife are equal and have to run the family. But yes, the husband has to inform the wife about it. But then, the media should not blame the men for investing their wives money. Women in general have the habit of spending money on shoes, clothes, accessories and what not - the unnecessary things in life because women never provided for households.
Re: hi
by Narendranath Mishra on Jul 14, 2010 01:29 PM
Inform? i think "ask" is a better word. What is tomorrow the wife decides to "invest" husband's money and then informs him about it? How would the husband take it? In this case, since the women are earning, i guess they are also "providing" for households.
Managing money can rarely be done together by a husband and wife as they will have diametrically opposite ways of managing them. A woman generally can have a good sleep only she has a bank balance, a man on the other hand would want all his money to be working (invested) and so low bank balance. Both the methods work and it should be mutually decided which method to follow. Or else life will be wasted only trying to teach each other "how to manage money"
Re: WHO IS MONEYQUIN??
by yugapurush on Jun 29, 2010 10:35 AM
not the problem with media, it is the problem with one write for the media. Normally B12345ds write about seperation, coz they experienced it and promote it
It is not a question of husband or wife. It is a concept of we. What ever decision is taken in a family, that is for the betterment of family. That is how Indian middle class families are successful in camaprison to the western counterpart.
We are not very much professional in dealing fiancial matters for family.
So don't try to impose western system on us. it may ruin our social system.
