1. Girls being over-ambitious,putting career ahead of husband 2. Girls wear clothes that would attract unwanted attention all sorts of public on the street.All these they do under the cover of ""freedom and economic independance"". People objecting to it are branded as “mean” and “narrow-minded”. 3. Girls already in marriage/committed relationships talk to any guy on trains,buses,in office..roam around with any guy saying ""He is my pal !""......go to pubs with guys/colleagues and drink,smoke,clap together,laugh out loud shamelessly. And if the bf/hubby dislikes it he is ""old-fashioned,controlling,possessive"" and what not !! The poor guy thanks himself for not being branded as the ""worst possible human being"" ! 4. The “male friends” then start touching the gal in the name of ""friendly hug"" or ""friendly touch"" or ""applying colours during Holi"". And today's loose-character gals just enjoy it in the name of friendship. Why can they not think that these things may be objectionable to their partners ? Friend, pal, buddy, are al
Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by frank G on Jul 01, 2010 05:43 PM
Don't know how many will agree,but your points are worth a thought..
Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by Police Officer on Jul 01, 2010 04:49 PM
"If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you." --Oscar Wilde
Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by Moral Brigade on Jul 01, 2010 03:47 PM
Friend, pal, buddy, are all euphemistic terms to conceal the underlying motives which sometimes operate as sublime and sub-conscious currents. All these lead to relationship troubles. What do you think ?
Re: Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by commonsense on Jul 02, 2010 03:13 PM
OK, agreed, What you are saying may be happening in metros and relationships may be getting spoiled because of this. But my point is why are you so much concerned? Are you the affected party here? do you need to vent your frustrations? the zeal with which you are spewing venom on female population in general catergorizing all of them as characterless which that is very much not the case makes me wonder? Should I feel sorry for you?
Re: Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by brahmarakshas on Jul 01, 2010 04:51 PM
Moral Brigade babu, you seem to be stuck in an antediluvian period.
Re: Re: Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by Kumar S on Jul 01, 2010 04:59 PM
if someone enjoy with your wife & go , then you say yourself im modern , i rspect my wife feelings, if one girl come to you just for good gasture your wife filled case adultary
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by Moral Brigade on Jul 02, 2010 09:08 AM
@cand, You have to agree that gals are becoming selfish and arrogant fast...
Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by candmfp on Jul 01, 2010 06:38 PM
If guys do the same no one think of it n point it out as ur from the same.. but if a gal do it it wll be the ROOT CAUSE of relationship failure..
As afterall ur guys.. from same idiotic thnking..
U want wife to work n she have to earn money for ur family as u do but she should not behave as u behave .. which is meaningless..
Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by lookisay on Jul 01, 2010 08:48 PM
We should not generalize. You might have seen incidents like the ones you mention. But there are also psycho husbands and insecure inlaws with over blown egos (just they gave birth to a male child?!!). These people are the major cause of the marriage breakdowns in India. I am not sure but the reasons you gave for marriage failures would not be more than 1 or 2%.
Re: Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by Moral Brigade on Jul 02, 2010 09:06 AM
I don't disagree to what you say, but whatever I have put up is certainly creating lots of problems especially in Metro cities.I have seen many many incidents, i hvae nt copied it from any text-book.Life is the best teacher.
Saying that only 1-2% failures can be attributed to these reasons is foolish.I can safely say 60-70% fail due to these.
Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by RAJPUTSruleTHEworld on Jul 01, 2010 07:27 PM
U R A BIG LOSER OF LIFE. AND U R ANTI-HINDU TOO AS U R USING HOLI FESTIVAL. NOW WE KNOW WHO U R MAN.
STOP PUTTING TALIBANI STATEMENTS HERE AND UR FOLLOWERES AND SUPPORTERS ARE ALSO TALIBANIS. WORLD SHOULD KICK YOU AND YOUR SUPPORTERS TO PLUTO PLANET.
Re: Re: ROOT CAUSES of marriage/relationship failures
by Bad Man on Jul 02, 2010 09:55 AM
I am Hindu but I am aware that Holi is a vulgar festival - just to get a feel of gals in the name of applying colors..any sane person will say it is vulgar.
