What we call debauchery is actually the nature's way. nature created us to survive and procreate. Not as some social reforming , devine creatures.
So the moment debauchery is made legal - which means , we say, 'it is ok to sleep with some other man/woman while you are married', the concept of marraige dissolves in an hour.
No living being created by mother nature sticks to ONE SEX PARTNER for life. No one except human because we invented this 'holy sh^t' called marraige and painted 'love' etc around it.
The marriages are breaking up because of girls having extra marital life.They want luxuries ,want husbands money and have enjoyment with others.They need a cause ,put up fight and break up and demand huge amounts from the husbands .This is happening in less than a year.Whom to blame?
Re: marriage falure
by scumbagneta on Jul 02, 2010 12:37 PM
why should they not when men are openly having ? Howmany men stick to the marraige vows. Almost all my married friends ogle at other women ( marraied and unmarried) at work place. Thats how it works.
Re: Re: marriage falure
by Indian Prince on Aug 21, 2010 10:06 PM
Nothing wrong in ogling .. Ogling does not lead to divorce .. On the contrary if a man keeps himself satisfied with ogling .. then his marriage is SAFE :)
Re: Re: marriage falure
by Indian Prince on Aug 21, 2010 10:07 PM
Nothing wrong in ogling .. Ogling does not lead to divorce .. On the contrary if a man keeps himself satisfied with ogling .. then his marriage is SAFE :)
Re: Re: marriage falure
by Indian Prince on Aug 21, 2010 10:06 PM
Nothing wrong in ogling .. Ogling does not lead to divorce .. On the contrary if a man keeps himself satisfied with ogling .. then his marriage is SAFE :)
Re: Re: Re: marriage falure
by Indian Prince on Aug 21, 2010 10:09 PM
Nothing wrong in ogling .. Ogling does not lead to divorce .. On the contrary if a man keeps himself satisfied with ogling .. then his marriage is SAFE :)
Re: Re: Re: marriage falure
by Indian Prince on Aug 21, 2010 10:07 PM
Nothing wrong in ogling .. Ogling does not lead to divorce .. On the contrary if a man keeps himself satisfied with ogling .. then his marriage is SAFE :)
Marraige is a concept invented by Humans. It was created for the sake of it. Nothing more. It is not some thing mother nature gifted us with. Marraige lasts as long as the sex drive towards the partner lasts. Especially in case of arranged marraiges.
More often than not, people flash that they are happily married just to show others off.
There is no difference between cheating physically ( having an extramarital affair) or cheating mentally ( thinking of another man/woman all the time).
So the concept of marraige is essentially an economical , social obligation rather than love and other stuff.
In nature, male is created as a reproductive catalyst ( animals, birds, reptile and even flora) and not like some 'husband'. And woman as a mechanism for procreation but as a mother.
nowadays these grls want everyting frm their husband side like property, bank balance etc. but not his parents. I think this is the main reason fr break-up
The couples must have enough money.Then both partners must have a desire towards each other every day,then the marraige will work.If the desire of Man is towards alchahol,drugs etc etc,then the marraige will fail.Then the desire of woman is towards K serials,chcolate movies,shopping etc etc again the marriage will fail.
Is Sex with wife is a right of Marriage divine bliss or favour from the partner ? After all it is man's animal world, what are the justifiable options ?
read a book which says that marriages work very well in the Indian context when either the husband is earning far more than his wife or she is earning much more than him...if the salary bands are same and very close, there is generally unhealthy competition which dooms the marriage...
