Re: What if you can't get married because of social disability?
by Brendan DeCruz on Dec 25, 2010 12:11 PM
Indians are big when it comes to bragging.....we seek shelter in culture n stuff to hide our defects n weakness....
Re: Arranged Marriage
by Story editor on Dec 25, 2010 12:17 PM
Who said love marriages do not last long?? In arranged marriages many times people carry on the burden of mismatched relationships due to fear of society...that is called lasting long?
Love marriages are on a rise...inter caste, inter community and even inter religious and I whole heartedly support this trend.
People must have the right to marry for love, with one they feel is best for them. People in love marriages have much better understanding and have much better quality of life.
Nowadays the only ones who are going for arranged marriage are the ones who do not have the courage to love and the spine to stand up for their decisions!
Re: Arranged Marriage
by Tamil Indian on Dec 25, 2010 01:11 PM
I think you completely missed the point - arranged marriage vs love marriage is not the comparison here. It is whether you delayed your intimacy or not is the question. Some arranged marriages are so arranged where the husband and wife meet at the first night only. That is the worst case of starting a sexual relationship before getting to know each other. The point of this research is saying please get to know each other before getting intimate. Hope you understand.
Re: Arranged Marriage
by Brendan DeCruz on Dec 25, 2010 12:12 PM
we go? or YOU GO? only the backward types go for arranged marriage....smart ones get their ow partners and move on....get a life man
Re: Re: Arranged Marriage
by Jaimin Soni on Dec 25, 2010 01:48 PM
Well, yes but eep in mind important point, backword gets converted and then they think that they are forward.... BS...
Re: Re: Arranged Marriage
by Jai Babu on Dec 25, 2010 12:55 PM
Well said Story Editor and Brendan! Some of these fossils and cavemen want to cling on to all that is old. There is no progress, reform or development for them!
Know the girl and marry her at the age of 60. no problem. delayed sex or impotent whatever may wont be problem. Sex is not the major problem. the real problem is the compatibility. Divorced persons are having a better marriage in this era when they marry for the second time. It is not sex but some infatuations and inhibitions. Do not write any scrap for the news value.
