You can have sex. but always remember it is addictive like drug. thats what make it dangersous. What it means is when you have sex, immediately it creats a need to have sex again. Nothing wrong in it. just be aware of it. Other issue is treat woman like friend. frindship should be 1st crieteria. sex would follow. by nature all women want is have fun that comes from friendship. if you satisfy their need, chances are you will be rewarded with you need i.e. sex. Still indian society is too messed up. people around you keep starring at couple. i dont know how can you enjoy romance or going out with girl if so many people are starring at you. we should make park, garden in all town and give privacy to love birds. else they will get marriade soon and now they have license to produce children like cockroach.
D. Goel pkl. afternoon 3pm, Dec. 10, 2010, Friday. The Libido is only as it is made out in this essay on hormones a matter of sequencingtheharmony or otherwise of various glandular excretions in graduated togetherness or in a manner of going awry.Surely Biology andBiochemistry does play amajor role in determining the libidinal impulses in Men and Women.But these are not exclusively theonly factors in sexual drives of Humanity. Much of culture , pornography and poetry is geared to play secondary Stimulant to sexual arousal. Beast and humans are different. Beast sexuually eructs only under physiological stresses. While Mankind could stimulate itself into sexual passion by self aroused Emotions or Cultural props like sexual symbolism.D. Goel
It is so sad to see people who dont know about relationships writing in the message board. For your kind information frieds your Maternal uncle's daughter is not your didi!!!
Re: Please clarify
by Sudarsan on Dec 14, 2010 02:42 AM
True. Your maternal uncle's daughter is your cousin and you can marry her, she is not a sister. Your paternal uncle's daughter is your sister (e.g. Kareena Kapoor-Ranbir Kapoor are sister-brother).
Marrying from the same family is not wrong, even though people say genetic problems happen. My dad's brother is married to his maternal uncle's daughter and they have a kid who is not only normal, but is very sharp and intuitive.
Re: Please clarify
by madhu madhu on Dec 10, 2010 02:26 PM
Right she is not our didi, she is your didi. Your marry one and give me your address.I will take care.
Hi all, Can you please clarify a small doubt. I am 27 years of age and i want to marry my maternal uncles daughter.There is a wide speculation of future childs problems etc.Please educate me on this genetics problem. Can you please suggest if i could go further.
Re: Please clarify
by Upen Boka on Dec 10, 2010 02:25 PM
See this is common in Kerala & Andhra. I know many people who are married like that & having kids. But in North Indian society this is NOT permitted & is a sin.
Re: Please clarify
by Kalyanasundaram Venkatesh on Dec 11, 2010 06:12 AM
hi mate: you did not clear one point. with whom your maternal uncle married? from outside of his family or from distant relative of his family? if he married to the female from outside, then, no harm in marrying his daughter, just go ahead. If it is otherwise, your kid might have some health problems due to the same group of DNA from the same family. You better consult with a good doctor who could clear up your doubts. My suggestion would be, DO NOT COME TO THIS WEB FORUMS for these kind of things bcoz you will get so many unnecessary comments showing their lack of maturity; better go & consult with doctor. Good Luck!!!
Re: Please clarify
by affina joseph on Dec 10, 2010 02:15 PM
there wont be any issue at all. Ignore the comments of others. These good for nothing guys have no work to do except making fun of others
Re: Please clarify
by Story editor on Dec 12, 2010 01:28 PM
Buddy it is risky to have a marriage like that...definitely there are much higher chances of genetic defects...doctors in Bangalore clearly say that genetic disorders are seen more among South Indians and Muslims who marry within the family.
Re: Please clarify
by affina joseph on Dec 10, 2010 02:15 PM
there wont be any issue at all. Ignore the comments of others. These good for nothing guys have no work to do except making fun of others
Re: Re: Please clarify
by rahul singh on Dec 10, 2010 02:34 PM
Parental consanguinity increases the autosomal recessive conditions through the expression of recessive deleterious alleles, especially in the offspring of first degree cousins. Parental consanguinity has been associated with increased risk of pediatric disorders including: Stillbirths and perinatal mortality, Congenital birth defects, Malformations, and mental retardation, Blood diseases (hemophilia, â-thalassemia), cystic fibrosis, Chronic renal failure and Neonatal diabetes mellitus.
Re: Re: Re: Please clarify
by rahul singh on Dec 10, 2010 02:38 PM
Some scientists contradict these studies and state that other biological factors could be accountable for the results and not consanguinity alone.
In our study we showed that consanguinity could increase the incidence of many blinding disorders like retinitis pigmentosa, Leber congenital amaurosis, Lawrence-Moon-Bardet-Biedl syndrome, Stargardt disease, Usher syndrome etc (Consanguinity and Ocular Genetic Diseases in South India: Analysis of a Five-year study. Community Genetics: 2002:5:180-185). Consanguinity could increase the risk of inheriting any one of the 4968 (autosomal recessive) genetic diseases that could affect any part of the body from head to foot.
Some animal studies have shown that inbreeding or consanguinity could enhance longevity. It has been proved beyond doubt that consanguineous marriages farther than second cousins would not result in major genetic diseases.
There are certain misconceptions regarding marriages amongst relatives, marriages between social relatives like wife's brother and husband's sister can get married, where there is no role for blood relationship.
Why do consanguineous marriages result in children with genetic diseases? Due to inheritance parents and children, and brothers and sisters, commonly share 50 per cent of their genetic make-up.
Similarly uncle and niece share 25 per cent and first cousins 12.5 per cent of their inherited genetic material as it originates from a common ancestor. In such situations if there are any `sil
Re: Re: Re: Please clarify
by rahul singh on Dec 10, 2010 02:37 PM
Problems with consanguineous marriages
BLOOD RELATED marriages are called consanguineous marriages — sanguine meaning blood.
Around the globe consanguineous marriages have been practised by many societies from time immemorial. It is widely practiced in Asia, North Africa, Switzerland, Middle East, some parts of China, Japan and fishermen communities in Europe and America. One in two rural marriages in Tamil Nadu and Andhra Pradesh are consanguineous.
What type of marriages are consanguineous marriages? When you marry biologically related or blood relatives then it is consanguineous marriage. Most commonly in our part of the world, first cousins — uncle's son marries auntie's daughter or vice versa.
However another type of marriage is where maternal uncle marries his niece (sister's daughter). Theoretical risk of having a genetic defect child is higher in the latter type of marriage than the former. Most of us do not even recognize the pros and cons of such marriages.
While assessing the consequence of consanguineous against non-consanguineous (non-blood related) marriages in health and disease, several scientific studies have shown that consanguinity leads to death of infants before, during or immediately after birth, increased incidence of birth defects, genetic diseases including blinding disorders, blood cancer (acute lymphocytic leukemia), breathing problems for children at birth (apnea), increased susceptibility to disease etc.
