how can the parents finalise an engagement without seeing the boy.... he reached the day before... my god what a risk ... for a person lvg in Dubai..he cud be any type...(subin mohan cud be the nicest person)..but still it is a folly... and these two in hurry to finalised names of kids be4 seeing each other...wah re wah....
Re: how can u!!
by subin mohan on Dec 30, 2010 05:03 PM
Hi ramamurthy,
I can understand your point. Brother not all things in this world are done after seeing and believing. There is something also called trust and faith. You can chose your wife after seeing and probably living with her for many years, but after marriage it is something called trust and faith that takes you forward. What guarantee is that after such a marriage nothing bad will happen?. Here we have spoken for almost 1-2 months before telling our parents to go ahead. To love someone, you need not see their body. Love is beyond body and soul. I do not blame you, people make their judgements based on their experiences. I pray that you get chance to live within a group of faithful, trustworthy and lovable people. God bless.
Re: Re: Ugly
by subin mohan on Dec 30, 2010 05:09 PM
In your culture, what do you suggest....have sex?
Brother/Sister, how do you like some one telling you what you should do?...like what breakafast you should have, what dress you should wear, how to walk, how to talk?...Please give respect to others, I am not telling me, but all around you. Have respect in people making their own choices, they are living their own personal lives, not yours.
Guys, let me know if you want to know more about our married life what we like doing etc. It's a lot of fun being together, living, and loving. Choose an obidient wife, who will do anything for you.
Re: It's Fun
by GeorgeBushIsGreat on Dec 13, 2010 01:43 PM
give me some tips to how to look for a suitable wife in arrange marriage. PLZZ GIVE ME TIPS TOO
Re: Re: It's Fun
by Prianka Shiv on Dec 14, 2010 04:37 AM
Subin,
Glad to know you guys are doing good. In my earlier comment I have actually bashed someone who was criticising that you chose bride mainly based on her looks. Well, as per me too to marry someone you have to be physically attracted to that person too along with lot of other aspects. When you meet/look at a person for your prospective groom/bride it is quite natural to see if are physically attracted to the person in first place. But your above comment that "Choose an obedient wife, who will do anything for you" .. somehow does not sit well with me. Well .. its your life. So no more comments. Happy married life.
Re: Re: Re: It's Fun
by subin mohan on Dec 30, 2010 05:22 PM
Dear Priyanka,
Please do not misunderstand me, The above comment was not written by me. It is some fake subin mohan posting in my name. My wife to me is not someone I see to be obedient and does all my stuff. She is my everything, my life partner, my equal and my stregthy half.
Even animals match horoscopes before marrying. The other day, in a zoo, I saw the zoo officials checking the horoscopes of a male and female Hippo before putting them in the same enclosement.
