I see that you got angry many times, you mentioned it so many times in your story. I think you should control that. As for the girl, she looks nice. Take care of her. But I always prefer an educated bright girl because it really matters once you have kids. An educated smart girl (not necessarily working) can manage a home better. But there are uneducated ones who do equaally well but education matters a lot.
Re: If Girl is more educated...
by alpha num on Dec 02, 2010 12:19 PM
Do you think a girl will be happy if she is well educated and earning well while husband is a homemaker? Hope ur answer is no then u will say that this is extreme case but think in similar way, if wife is more educated and earning than husband, do you think the girl will be happy? very less likely.
Being a girl I think you know better how girls feels proud in saying that my husband is this and that, however rarely you may have seen similar thing from boys.
Most of the girls think that boys want a wife who is much below him especially in education and earning, so that they can show their ego, but it's not true. Boys like girls who are educated and smart but yes a little less than or equal to him(in most of case but not absolute), but girls always want their husband to be more educated and earning than her.
And there is nothing related to jeans, it’s our social life. In traditional Manipur women do all outdoor works for earning, even casual household repairing works while men stay at home take care of children but they don’t have any ego problem cause their social life is like that.
Re: If Girl is more educated...
by nitasha cherian on Dec 04, 2010 04:58 PM
Problems start when the lady is very much more educated than her spouse.She will make more money & be independent.Inevitably,in our male oriented society,there will be whispers about how HE is living off his WIFE.Yes,it's stupid,but that's how it is. Deepak Roy mentions that his ex fiancee is superior in education & affluence.She will want more out of life...like expecting a higher standard of living which he may never be able to realistically provide.Both partners need to be mentally equal & have the same mindset for a marriage to work.
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by Kalpana Natarajan on Dec 01, 2010 09:53 PM
He is a gem of a man. He takes pride in my achievements.. ! But I find that men like him are so few in number.. So I want to know what gene or what attitude in average men, goes wrong whenever they see their women achieve or study more than they have.
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by Parikshit Sahni on Dec 02, 2010 12:26 PM
That is great. Am proud of your husband.Very few men are like that. My wife is also like your husband.
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by danish iqbal on Dec 02, 2010 06:09 AM
to creat a right kind of maturity to take things as pride for girls who are more educated would definately build a right kind of balance and relationship.also balance in life.Men generally are egoistic.But feel proud to have smbdy as educated .Iwil definately love to have somebdy in my life as my soulmate who is moreeducated than me.
Re: If Girl is more educated...
by R Karishma on Dec 02, 2010 12:32 AM
It's the girls who cannot stand another educated girl especially professional types. You can easily get criticized for being a bad mother/wife by the very girls who you would think support you. Men are predictable in their criticism and are easy to shut them down.
