i lended money to my friend, who allured me big buck divident,but he didnot return my one year salary,,,whole world is full of crook and money begger,, specially randiwaz, juawaz are master in begging money,, offer drink, extra hospitality and later ask for help,, it is good mantra,,
My close family releation lent Rs 2 lakhs to his friend when that fellow was buying the flat. He was to return the money after some time. However, he died before he could do that; My family member could not ask the widow to return the money. very said situation
I gave 10k to my friend and had to run around him for years to it back. I gave 3L to another friend and he returned it back before what he had promised
Re: Re: pound wise.. penny foolish
by Lassi pc on Aug 04, 2010 03:00 AM
the moral is : If you are trying to help your friend .. dont expect any return. He may not be in a position to help you out when you need him...that wont mean he has bad intent...BELEIVE YOUR FRIENDS
Very True. This is really a good advice. I would like to add one more thing which I learned from a friend of mine who is rich and sometimes lend money to others. Whenever somebody demand good sum of money from him he will inquire about the need and also gives some other possibilties like Why cant the other person demands from his/her parents? Wat about credit card/loan or advance from the company. Now when borrower gives reasons that why cant he go for any of the other option he gets an idea about the need, as well as financial condition, intentions etc. If found genuine he lend money. Also, if somebody asks for a small amount of 50/- or 100/- he always give 500/- without question. First of all borrower is happy as he received more than asked but one same time he can be made accountable. Accountability is the key factor in long term relationships.
Who are you guys who brings on this subject of muslim Vs hindu. Whatever insecuriies you have either please keep it to yourself or do something about it, rather than just commenting.
Re: ya
by Visharad Software on Aug 02, 2010 07:35 PM
I know you are joking. But, to be serious, I rarely borrow money and when I borrow I make sure to repay it. Unless I have repaid, I feel tension.
