This term has no meaning at all in present days, even in past days. Who tells the real truth to one another. Sex is a chance, more or less every one is involved when they search their soul after 60 years of age. Thus the question and answer both are irrelevent , previously, when all was covered, now every thing is open.
Now days I have come across many cases of infedility and divorce.I feel the girls are being married by thei parents against their wishes for social stigma.this is ending up as "Failed Marriages".They are unable to adjust and in turn blame the boy ,harass him and misuse the domestic voilation act ,and demand huge Alumni. It is really dipressing to see such cases.
Cheating partner is not gender specific as cheating is a vice that could be with any one.What is more important is,the factors which facilitate them & drive people to resort to it.Further,what is construed as cheating may not be so according to the life, style, customs etc of a place/country.Dating even by students of High school is acceptable-rather taken as common in USA while the same highly objectionable in India.It all depends on it is viewed.One thing very certain is that men are likely to be swayed away by the amorous looks of a lady & here it gives scope for them to be cheated by women.It has been well said in vernacular Telugu that-"Aadadani Vorachooputho,Jagaana Vodiponi Dheerudevvadu"(Which great man in the world does not fall prey to the side looks of a lady?)This ,however,cannot be generalised as,in our day to day life,we are seeing several instances of married men too wooing the gullible women & marrying for more than one time illegally & deceptively.Cheating is a criminal instinct & can be with both-men & women.Further,it also becomes a matter of opportunity too in some circumstances & opportunities.So,instead of blaming a particular sex/section of the people,it is desirable that we make attempt to address the factors that facilitate resorting to it.Mutual trust between the two partners, of course,also minimises the chances & applies brakes to the thought process of cheating. India,that way,is far far better from the west because of its very rich culture
Most of the adults in the world who watch romantic movies, thrillers, fights, etc.; do accept of fantasizing some of the heroes / heroines during their dating or intercourse with their bed mates. Cheating need not be physical. Dreams are part of life. For some dreams come true too. Some work for and make their dreams come true. Some buy them too. A date or intercourse is directly proportional to the emotional arousal. Some get special thrills in extra marital affairs. Some long for but restrain due to the society. Some break out. Some control some cannot. People trying to make a living out this is the oldest profession in the world incidently. A statistical proof on this is also a profession to lead a life which this article is proving..
Re: Poll: Are women more likely to cheat in a relationship?
by mallaiah anchoori on Oct 13, 2009 05:26 AM
Do you mean to say that we are living in a world of deceit ?If it is so,you are right.
Women call it love.But ditch the partner when he is not in good state or when they are successful to trap another better off person leaving the ex bewildered. They know the best to change colour and are never sorry. That is called cheating.
It is the men who are the main cheaters. Take the example of Shiney Ahuja. Though he is married he had sex with the poor young girl. On the other hand knowing everything, his wife is supporting him, saying- "I am proud of my Man....He is a man of great character"....and so on.
Re: Manisha Dhar
by Rationalist on Sep 06, 2009 01:11 AM
Just wait a few days. If Shiney gets convicted, the same wife will ditch him and settle with some other person.
Re: Manisha Dhar
by Rationalist on Sep 06, 2009 01:19 AM
She is just playing it safe to save her marriage showing that she has confidence in her husband. Once he is proven guilty, she will complain that she never knew he was like this.
Re: Re: Manisha Dhar
by Piyush Goel on Apr 23, 2010 11:31 PM
Yaa i also agree with Rationalist, that one day when shiney will found guilty then the statements of his wife might be the same as Rationalist write.... Shiney had accepted the charges also
