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Being followed? Dealing with stalkers


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sivaram raghavan
Dealing wth stalkers
by sivaram raghavan on Oct 27, 2009 12:38 PM  | Hide replies

The gap between "haves" and "have nots" in the society is widening.
Stalking, snatching and stealing is only going to increase.
Best way is to watch out (a) don't dress up in a manner that attracts unwanted attention, unless you have strengthend yourselves to handle such people (b) don't carry jazzy bags inviting attention (c) change rountes and times of arrival departure every day (d) try to be in places where there are people around, as far as possible. (e) do not demonstrate extra friendly body language that can invite stalkers attention. Avoid odd hours if possible. above all, if we cannot solve a problem, we have to learn to live with it!


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Devdutt Nayak
Re: Dealing wth stalkers
by Devdutt Nayak on Oct 27, 2009 12:57 PM

chilly powder

strong nails, claws ensure that attacker will be identifiable by injury marks


of course this needs the police to be honest which is rare on the ground

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Roy
Re: Dealing wth stalkers
by Roy on Oct 27, 2009 12:46 PM
Now a days even 60 year old rapes 3 year old girl.40 year old man abuses his 7 year old nephew.Is this beacuse of extra friendly body language?

Grow up man.

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ShyamKumar Mangayil
Re: Re: Dealing wth stalkers
by ShyamKumar Mangayil on Oct 27, 2009 01:05 PM
Roy sab, You're absolutely right.
Infact there was a study in Egypt where I read that 70% of foreign tourists and 80% of local Egyptian women complaint of secual harrassment in some form daily , that women who are covered are not spared.

Please Sivaram, do not generate panic or hysteria.Just be vigilant,inform police and friends in case you are a victim.

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manish
Re: Re: Dealing wth stalkers
by manish on Oct 27, 2009 02:40 PM
thats pathetic !! Roy,
sivaram was suggesting something...u dint even do that and u criticize him ??
Such poor attitude is a cause of our backwardness

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donald devasia
dealing with strangers
by donald devasia on Oct 27, 2009 12:26 PM

Its a good issue to put up with. In case if something like that happens should immediatly inform the nearest security centers or a security guard who can pass on the relevant message to headoffice or a nearby pcr van.


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