as mr. amit kumar has writen abuv(the tips), they r very much correct, until nd unless the gals dont forget tht femals r weaker sexes, they cant do anything, men r strong sexes just bcoz gals hav given them rite 2 bcum strong. the day a gal starts replyin the stalkers by their own way, the next time, the stalker wont b able 2 repeat it again.also, u can take the police help. nd dont think abt society view. if u r rite, thn u shud go ahead wid it, social rules hav been made by we ppl, nd no rules in the world can b as imp as the respect, nd the rite of the women. show the stalkers tht u r not weak, u r strong, nd strong enugh 2 handles these stalkers. call police, take help of ppl around, ur frds. ur silence is the reason of growth of stalkers. if u wanna gain respect, set examples, not by keepin urself silence, bt in explosiv way. wish u all gals all the very best, take care frds
Previous Women's Development Minister spent a lot of energy on domestic violence and other household atrocities carried out against women. But she rarely stood for safegaurding women's interest to stalkers, road romeos and other public goons - except when it was politically convenient as in the Mangalore pub case.
For the Home ministry which takes care of law enforcement, these are easy, quick-shut cases and they felt most happy. Policemen dont have courage to take on rowdy, anti-social elements and would not even register cases against harassers, eve teasers and other goondas, who most often have political nexus.
But reality is that stalkers and their ilk are having a field day whenever specific political group starts getting empowered. For eg, KRV supports kannada speaking goons in Bangalore, MNS supports marathi speaking goons in Mumbai, resulting in people coming from other states becoming sitting ducks. Incidentally, of course not coincidentally, no politician speaks about these issues because most locals do not face this harassment.
A female collegue has been receiving repeated lewd phone calls and smses from a local goon for several months now, but complaints to police do not recieve any action except false promises. Eventually, lower level constables accept that they dont take such cases seriously because an outsider cannot easily access a local politician or even their superior whereas the goon would be their man in all probability.
Re: Stalker's problem
by G K on Nov 17, 2009 02:22 PM
GIRLS Probably think they are extra smart and that boyz should follow them. Its Just girls over confidence nothing else. They Themselves want that boys follow them so that they can prove their importance.
Futher Boys today also give too much importance to girls for no reason whatsoever.
