there R THIN LINE OF DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TRUE LOVE AND STAKING BASED ON LUST......IT IS THE GIRL WHO HAS TO ASSERTAIN IT AND FACE THE SITUATION BOLDLY WITHOUT ANY FEAR.....AFTER VISHAKHA CASE GIRLS SHOULD KNOW THIR RIGHTS AT WORK PLACE......
Today i work with an MNC and i mingle with men socially who are my colleagues. I never experienced any sort of things i mentioned in my narration ,i feel comfortable with them.One thing i can say that it was really a frustrating situation in the college. Ultimately its upto you people that how you take the narration. Again i'm helpless , i dont have enough proof to prove it.
See you see a person looking at you if you are looking at them. I think you must have been staring at him and playing psychological games with yourself? He must be thinking she wants to ask me question and looking how you probably were looking at him he was probably was worried.
WHy I say it not crime to look at anyone and looking at someone is not stalking. If man does something says something abnormal then fine. You type of girl is most dangerous presumptuous. Don't look at them and they would not look at you. Remember to see someone looking at you must look at them. My opinion he must have been scared of you.You were in his cabin and he did nothing but deny that is proof enough of his innocents
An overactive imagination most dangerous type of women all man beware of you.
Re: An over active imagination
by Rinku sinha on Nov 21, 2009 02:34 PM
Today i work with an MNC and i mingle with men socially who are my colleagues. I never experienced any sort of things i mentioned in my narration ,i feel comfortable with them.One thing i can say that it was really a frustrating situation in the college. Ultimately its upto you people that how you take the narration. Again i'm helpless , i dont have enough proof to prove it.
Re: Re: An over active imagination
by Sanjay on Dec 04, 2009 11:19 PM
yep don't comment. One time I was in class and the teacher look at this girl's buttachs and there was so much noise made, but you magnificent one who has to still "prove" he is a stocker because he looks at you funny. Now your friend said nothing but everyone probably was laughing how you are reacting to your professor and totally humiliating him.
You were alone in his cabin and he did nothing but deny it. How are you going to prove by your own narration when you already prove his innocent. Now you try to do something extreme and seduce him and then we will know his intent? this is your intent in proof, being alone in his cabin was not enough to prove his innocents?
Well it is common for professors to look at their students weirdly and as once a student we also wanted favorable treatment by a professor. In fact most students are neverous and scared of their professors, but you think he has the hots for you. How much older was he , sometimes lecturers can be good looking? I wonder did you find him attractive? Did he ever stare at some body part other then your face, it could mean sexual harassment? and I know everyone would have said something was wrong with him. You must trust the unbiased point of view of your friend because they see your reaction and his reaction.
Besides where ever you meet and saw your dear professor he was in your college he did not come to your house and try to meet you? So he was where he was suppose to be a professor in college which is normal.
Dear Hemant I think the story does not make sense because..... Let us assume that the lecturer had bad intentions.. Then why he did not ask for any sexual favours in return of passing her in the exam?
And if the girl misunderstood him, then why did he pass her?
Re: Re: Surprising responses
by Jas on Nov 15, 2009 12:04 PM
The lecturer feared that the girl will file a FALSE HARRASMENT CASE AGAINST HIM, this trick is very easy to do these days.
There are many here who have responded by blaming the girl herself, for 'sensationalizing', 'attention', 'poor performance at college' etc. THese are really ij bad taste: imagine for a moment what it may be doing to the girl if what she is saying is true! It's better to belive her and be deceived that don't believe and let off creep and perverts of all sorts. And let's not forget for one moment: there are crooks in the garb of teachers and professors who have gone to a much more heinous level than this one. So whether this narration is true or false, there is nothing that is unbelievable.
Re: Surprising responses
by PS on Nov 14, 2009 09:24 AM
But the story told seems like a small part of movie or daily soap serials. Thus there is a questionability of truth of this story. How can one belive this story?
There are many here who have responded by blaming the girl herself, for 'sensationalizing', 'attention', 'poor performance at college' etc. THese are really ij bad taste: imagine for a moment what it may be doing to the girl if what she is saying is true! It's better to belive her and be deceived that don't believe and let off creep and perverts of all sorts. And let's not forget for one moment: there are crooks in the garb of teachers and professors who have gone to a much more heinous level than this one. So whether this narration is true or false, there is nothing that is unbelievable.
I agree that such incidents do happen in college's but girls these days are very smart and crooked. They are the one who will be the most happiest one if any of their faculty is behind them. The reason simple - Nice Grades, Good Guidance, Great Recommendations - though lecturer himself is a losser but he will try his best to make sure that his sinster girl gets well placesin company, Erotic nights, Part Time B.F and etc etc..
Re: Quite Possible But the Girl is Smart & Crooked
by G k on Nov 16, 2009 12:24 PM
its seems this girl herself has nothing to do. i wish she concentrates on her studies instead of being very highly conscious.
