dude....what you have written clearly seems to be a made up story....somewhere within you sick sense of humour you dream of being stalked by a woman and are expressing it here....go have a life
Re: Surely lies and all fake
by kiran kumar on Nov 11, 2009 05:54 PM
Put yourself in this situation. You are in (true) love with someone, you are not able to gather courage to express it (afraid of being rejected), you are not able to visualize a life without him/her. The very thought of being rejected drains you out emotionally. Your heart says your love will be accepted, your head says there is a chance of rejection. You toss a coin and cannot dare to see the outcome. What would you do?
It is in those situations that these weak people start stalking (I am not talking about rogues, who do it fore the sake of it). That is the reason, when these people are confronted they just vanish, they realise that what they dreaded has actually happened. Still they respect the opinions of the ones whom they have been stalking. Everybody moves on.
I would see stalkers as having a mental/emotional condition and in need of support than being treated as anti-social elements. If they are exposed early enough it will be easy to get them out of their trance.
Not exposing them early (sometimes) can give impressions of acceptance/leading. Handling it early is the key for all stalkers. If that does not help, escalate it... shout in the crowd, tell the parents, go to police etc
Re: Re: Surely lies and all fake
by Simpu SH on Nov 15, 2009 04:00 PM
what he has written abt the stalker seems to be fine but what he has written abt hinself is a fabricated one.
Re: Surely lies and all fake
by vandematram on Nov 11, 2009 02:28 PM
Seems you need to have life .. there are Many n Many gals who are stalking guys ..well diffrence is ..it is not on road ..most of time over cell phone..
really, this article reminded of something similar happened with me. Even I was continously followed by a girl with whom I broke up. She use to follow me, call me and even came before me when I am with my friends or family. This was really irritating and insulting for me. But things changed once she got married. Now she does call me, but we are good friends. Now after so long, we still feels strange thinking about what all she did.
