MARRIAGE SHOULD eNHANCE THE ROMANCE.....THERE IS SCOPE OF LOT OF EXPERIMENTS TO ENHANCE ur romance.....surprise gifts,outings. inroll clasees or persue joint hobbies,even placing a note that how much he loves her and hide it and say her to find...winner will get a chance to fullfill one desire......but desire should be realistic.....candel light dinner and experiment in sex life.....
yes this stories were encouraging i loved the most .actually it is not stand before but after infection of foreign business model in india it create all the mess . lovers have love in their mind in their heart even in their thinking ,it is not diminished in long run ,it is not all about sex more over it is important to make a relation healthy for years ,the travelling to previous sated area really help the couples the most earlier days of their meet so that igniting the flame for long & steady run .besides this u can not left the responsibilities of ur home ,baby,and even to ur parents ,that is true spirit of good living . i know it is very much difficult in this critical juncture but all must try their level best to made viable the relation for good results for ever
Who says marriage is death of romance..we can still romance with other girls after marriage..till the time its not known to wife romance will stay longer than marriage ;P
Re: Re: 'Marriage need not mean the death of romance'
by Lal on May 06, 2009 06:22 AM
nice quote. marriage is a commitment. People who cannot handle commitment should stay away from each other. Its much more than a tax writeoff.
Marriage is taking love at the next level. A man and a woman's love grows into a marriage. If they don't marry then they really have not grasped love fully. The problem is not marriage. The problem is MEDIA. Media likes to portray marriage as if its lifeless. Its not. Its like anything else, it what you make of it. People work in useless, dead end job but they still do it! Why? The job is also what you make of it. Marriage is a like a garden, it needs work to keep it looking wonderful. Difference is, now there are two of you to manage the garden. You don't have to do it alone. IT IS WHAT YOU MAKE OF IT. Media is too busy pushing perversion. It does not want the stable marriage that has been around since the beginning of time.
Whatever you do, romance definitely dies after 30 days of marriage or less. After this short period, marriage is mere waste of time for another 30 years till one becomes old. In old age, it would be useful when one falls sick, the other to take care as there wont be anyone else around.
