hey guys frankly speaking I feel that today everything is commercialized. In todays world your societal status, reputation and happiness depends on money. Nobody can deny it. So whats wrong if somebody poor with a good personality and sense of humour; attracts a richer guy or girl and gets married to improve his/her standard of living? After all once you have enough money to feed you; you can bring all sort of comforts and can have mental relief to make your marriage work. Love and commitment will come along as time goes by. Think about it. Its purely practical and realistic.
Unfortunately, this little oversight seems to have missed most of the brainwashed male-haters on this board!
This country EXPECTS laws against males and males alone. The media adverts have brainwashed men so much, that men are supposed to be 'stupid' and 'perverts', while women are always 'clean' and 'intelligent'. The hate spewed against males, while sparing completely the women involved, is a CLEAR indication of this.
i think its a good idea whts wrong after 20 years of marriage and kids etc you realize how important money is. I have met so many ppl with good wives but now they crave for money, to meet the lifestyle and family demands of today.
Re: whts wrong
by michel angelo on Jun 02, 2009 01:40 AM
Hey,now go and meet those who had a big bank balance but lack loyalty and strong commitment from their respective wives.
I would not marry for money or status. But I woudl def prefer a working woman. As the current world is more demanding. But I would not say samehting for a girl. As far as I have seen, girls parents look for guy in USA or some other foreign country.I would not blame women for it. It is their demanding parents, who I guess want their daughter to be settled nicely.
Re: demanding girls parents
by Tall Male on Jun 01, 2009 08:15 PM
Men marry for sex and women for money. This is an age old RULE!
Unfortunately, this little oversight seems to have missed most of the brainwashed male-haters on this board!
This country EXPECTS laws against males and males alone. The media adverts have brainwashed men so much, that men are supposed to be 'stupid' and 'perverts', while women are always 'clean' and 'intelligent'. The hate spewed against males, while sparing completely the women involved, is a CLEAR indication of this.
Re: demanding girls parents
by Pramit Roy on Jun 01, 2009 07:16 PM
But so many US guys are chindi chor cobblers in Vada pao samosa pao companies like TCS......these wriggling worms are no better than slave traders..........
Re: Re: demanding girls parents
by Mike c on Jun 01, 2009 07:21 PM
Another funny thing about this is, the girls parents might have been in govt jobs and been living a middle class life. But when it comes to marriage of their daughters, they get too demanding. As if the girl was living a royal life before.
Re: Re: Re: demanding girls parents
by Pramit Roy on Jun 01, 2009 07:33 PM
I call such people the ducated illiterates...and unfortunately, such people make up the majority of the middle class in India.......a blind devotion to the US name....i know one guy in our family, a distant relative who conned a girl's family into marrying him by selling the US dream.....on reaching there, the girl realized that he was a librarian drawing $35K per annum..........
I passed out of IIM Calcutta some years back and i can tell you, women are only after money...the guys in our batch who cracked the big US investment banks all got married within one year after passing out..
And the Chindi Chor cobblers who ended up with vada pao chaparasi companies like TCS or Infosys at a pittance of a salary have either married incredibly ordinary girls or are still single...hehehehe!!
Re: I'am from an IIM.......
by amit agrawal on Jun 01, 2009 07:23 PM
I guess you guys are more chindi chor than TCSers. At leaste TCS is giving job opportunities to 1,30000 people. How many people in your company is employed
One my friend, As he was obedient enough thus decided to let his marriege to be arranged by his parents. Resulting he married a girl who is illitrate and totally oposite to his nature, and even dont care for the kid leading kid is developing the outistic trend. Now he feels money conquers everything as he says that his parents were so happy with the material have been offered along the girl.... Though he agreed for all that
