NEVER LEAVE HER.....BE WITH HER OR HIM ALWAYS FOREVER.....BEING TOGETHER,EMOTIONAL FULLFILLMENT,CARE,UNCONDITIONAL LOVE,SHARING OF PROBLEMS,HAPPINESS,ALWAYS GIVE ,NOT EXPECT TOO MUCH IS REAL IDEA OF ROMANCE.LOVE
demand and supply balance. Demand was always there and will remain, supply is always limited due to social, call is values (some call is regressive, backward looking, down market) or non values (some call it modern, forward looking).
Whenever this balace is challenged by either demand or supply, relationships are at risk.
Re: Stuuupid
by Dream Peace on Jan 06, 2010 11:59 PM
To be frank the olader most of the older generations never 'lived' the relation of marriage.They used to actually drag it for so many years bcoz they cared more about society & "what people will say" rather than if they are really happy in their marriage. There are couples who are living together for 40 years..fighting everydday..yet being hypocrites to show "people" that they r together.whats the point in "pretending" a looong lasting marriage
Re: Re: Stuuupid
by Ravesinh Zala on Jan 07, 2010 12:37 AM
one must 'care for society'because we live in a society, if the couple were married and lived in jungle it was no ones concern, but in society one has to be social and again its not 'dragging' but marriage or any relationship lasts on compromise if need be and thats how family can exist. the west has realised this and are concerned about their marriages,
Re: Re: Stuuupid
by knowthe reason on Jan 07, 2010 02:52 PM
no marriage can last lifelong if u dont care for society...some of the points are valid here but not all of them...
rightly said...its more suited to the western life style
always honest.....even at cost of hurting others......never compromise ur values....ur values are not urs but unversal....always love too much to ur love,care for her too much.....donot afraid of constructive criticism.......always recognise the differences and limitations also......never see life as opportunity but love live to fullest......be able success will come......donot run blindly after success by compromising about ur values......respect first os all urself,every body will follow suit.....IF U R REALLY A FRIEND OF SOMEONE PIN POINT WHERE THEY ARE WRONG,SO THAT THEY CAN RECTIFY THEIR MISTAKES.......
Re: always honest.....even at cost of hurting others......
by S M on Jan 04, 2010 01:39 PM
Love is not worth the pain and the burden you have to carry afterwards when things dont work out
1-Pay less attention to yourself and more attention to other people. 2- Focus on opportunities,not problems. 3-Listen first and talk later. 4- Criticise only when your criticism is helpful. 5-perfom an act of kindness everyday. 6-Make selflessness a permanent part of your life. 7- Smile when you see your relatives,friends and others and share with them---their dreams and ambitions. 8- Never speak badly about anyone. 9-Make it a habit to care those around you.
1. be true to urself and ur partner..... 2. always give-love,happiness,care 3.live life to the fullest 4. give space and respect to each other..... 5. respect the friends and relatives of ur partner..... 6. communicate if any doubt......
