1. If a man ever hits you or slaps you or even threatens you in a rough way. that tells your character also u woman....men are very gentle with women otherwise.
2. If a man tries to move into YOUR apartment because he doesn't have a job or a place to stay. He just wants to stay close to you....ummmm...he knows that even wout job also he will have to spend on u in same quality in quantity..
3. If a man plays with you like you are one of his buddies. that means you both are good players....cheer up!!!
4. If a man doesn't have any men friends or his men friends are a bunch of jerks. Did i ever question ur frnz or the attitude they show to me? They always try 2 steal me from u..u know that...bt still i dont have problem with ur jerks...y u r questioning mine...
5. If a guy is jealous or possessive for no reason. There is a reason behind everything madam!!! Wout reason is an area for you,and thats called as nonsense!!!
6. If a guy wants a committed relationship after one date. U sud be thankful to his attitude. He is happy with what he got, inspite of trying for something better.
7. If a guy walks up to you on the street and tells you how hot you are. I agree with u here. U sud suggest him to go to some optician before making such remarks.
8. If he is married or in a relationship. You should b happy that you will b the one who will rule the alliance. The guy will b a bhigi billi. Still you have problems. That too when u claim that u r modern!
Re: 8 brainers from gaurav
by pralav bhatt on Apr 08, 2009 04:49 PM
Nice one gaurav. u have kept the spirit..well..atleast men are not like rakhi sawant who is looking for a groom vai swayamvar in these times..
Re: Re: Re: 8 brainers from gaurav
by mayank kaushik on Apr 08, 2009 05:28 PM
8th is not good enuf - Rather it shud be agreed Rest all simply superb... All in all the research is BULL *** and not supported with logical facts.
Re: Re: Re: Re: 8 brainers from gaurav
by gaurav singh on Apr 09, 2009 11:47 AM
i just thought of giving them some positive...after blasting them for 1st seven points...sorry dude...will tackle next research in more better and professional way
Re: Re: Re: Re: 8 brainers from gaurav
by gaurav singh on Apr 09, 2009 11:46 AM
Thanx a lot dudes for ur comment. Especially for soumik sengupta dada.... first of all i am not gaurab... i hope u haventlost ur eyesight. Next thing for doing something which is in ur interest, time is never a factor....ok...thankfully i am still in a job...nd in case if u loose 1, please contact me...will help you out
1. If a man ever hits you or slaps you or even threatens you in a rough way. - Then most of women will give divorce for any small dam reason.
2. If a man tries to move into YOUR apartment because he doesn't have a job or a place to stay. - If she doesn't understand your situation then she is just selfish.
3. If a man plays with you like you are one of his buddies. - Not sure what LRx suggest!
4. If a man doesn't have any men friends or his men friends are a bunch of jerks. - Who the hell she is to decide who should be my friend, Every single friend have certain good qualities. thats why they are friends.
5. If a guy is jealous or possessive for no reason. - Agreed, But what he is jealous about? May be he is expecting something that girl don't have.
6. If a guy wants a committed relationship after one date. -- What do you do when you visit matrimonials or arranged marriages!
7. If a guy walks up to you on the street and tells you how hot you are. - Don't think a mature guy will do this, but without attraction there won't be any relationship, Women expects man to ask or start otherwise she will be perceived as fast.
8. If he is married or in a relationship. - For Many independent women it doesn't makes much difference.
Re: Answers
by pralav bhatt on Apr 08, 2009 04:59 PM
good one..shrish..well let me tell one more thing, men are more commited towards relationships with the opposite sex, but these guys(if they really are)will not understand...women are not man handled but it is the opposite these days and credits goes to our society who is repeatedly showing via media and television sops..
Re: Re: Answers
by vinayak nilkanth on Apr 08, 2009 02:35 PM
Both the authors are talking things which will probably work in western countries. They have no relevance in India.
Re: Answers
by Commenter on Apr 08, 2009 02:09 PM
Hi Shrish --Just an insight on point 4.I agree to this point.A man is known by the company he keeps.Well one reason for the same is that there is a guy in my office who has no guys as friends and just tries to be in the company of girls.As a result he walks, talks, behaves and even giggles or blushes like a girl.He likes to be treated and taken care of just like a girl.In this way, he behaves likes a girl among boys and among girls, he wants the girls to to act like boys and pamper him.so as a result no one likes to be with or even near him as we are not able to judge his gender.
Re: Re: Answers
by Riskyguy on Apr 15, 2009 12:24 PM
Hey Commenter, Agree with u on most of the stuff u hv written, except the part that your colleague wants girls to pamper him. I personally think there is nothing wrong that a guy wants a girl to take care of him. IMHO, every guy wants to have a caring girlfriend.
1)Who has more interest in ur wallet than u 2)Spends like crezy 3)Tries to outlive on the means 4)School dropout 5)Who cannot cook and nurse 6)Who is a boozer 7)Who wears dirty innerwear 8)Who is not ready to move out with u 9)Has few friends 10)Who hates dogs and cats. 11)Who loooks 4 ur car firtst than u
Re: Hi
by rekha khandelwal on Apr 08, 2009 12:57 PM
Reasons to be with a man: 1) Who is understanding, loving & caring. 2) Who takes you out wherever and whenever you want. 3) Who lets you do what you want to do. 4) Who allows you to dress up according to your wish. 5) Who does not rule you.
Re: Re: Hi
by Guest on Apr 08, 2009 05:24 PM
Hi Rekha Pt 1 and 5 are good 2>Who takes you out wherever and whenever you want >>> every weekend you want to go for a lavish trip ..?or every eve when your guy comes back from office you want him to take you out for dinner ??? RUBBISH 3> Who lets you do what you want to do >> you want to setup a booze party every every eve or you wish to sleep around with other guys....do u expect your guy to buy c.. for them ?? BRAINLESS 4>) Who allows you to dress up according to your wish.>> Roam around in bikinies or topless infront of family members ???? ......cant find a proper thing 2 say
Unfortunately aping the west has become the order of the day. I am not saying that having good social relations between different sexes is wrong, but the fact is this is leading to several social problems and we are coming across several atrocities against women in the name of love. Though the suggestions given here are good, in my opinion, there should be a limit to this menace called dating. Women need to discriminate between friendship, love and lust. None can give sugegstions on these except parents and well wishers and above all self conciousness
Absolutely one of the more sensible and useful pointers to women in a nutshell. A sensible woman should follow these guidelines unless she is out for fun. She can then date persons like Tarun Mukherjee (who has a weird comment below) and dump him after use. I am sure both will end up happy
