Today's compititive world this bound to happen.every parent wants child should be compititive in every respect.but every one has own limitations.if you put pressure or compare with others, child will hurt and may take this decision.secondly most of the child ignore the parents and feels that we know better then them and we can take the right decision.i think nobody should be responsible or everybody should be responsible for the same.i personally feel it's bad luck for the child,family and society
Parents must be penalised appropriately for the misdeeds done by their pampered children. Poor may get pecunary penalty. Rich may be imprisioned for few months. The moment they smell punishment, things will start improving.
Friends, please realize that suicide is NOT the solution to a problem. If you do not like the course, college, or are not able to cope up with something - try and seek help if possible. If there is NO help, just WALK OUT of the situation. DO SOMETHING ELSE. There is NO NEED TO KILL YOURSELF. The amount of agony your parents, brothers, sisters and friends undergo because of such decision is too huge.
By killing yourself you are saying that you are a coward, not capable of facing the challenges of the world, which you are NOT.
YOU CAN SUCCEED AS A GOOD HUMAN BEING DOING SOMETHING YOU LIKE, YOU LOVE.
You know that each one of us is born with some skills, and ability to learn. But, if you can't learn a specific skill, you need not worry. That is OK.
Not all of us need to be Doctors, Engineers, Specialists of some kind. Not all of us need to pass with top distinction every time. IT IS OKAY TO FAIL. WE CAN TRY AGAIN. Or, CHOOSE AN ALTERNATE CAREER OPTION. Be a painter, dancer, singer, cook, beautician, pilot, entrepreneur, accountant, TEACHER, player, a good husband or wife, etc...
LIFE IS TOO PRECIOUS TO BE CRUSHED BY THOSE MOMENTARY FEELINGS OF FAILURE.
NEVER GIVE UP OR GIVE IN. THERE IS ALWAYS ANOOTHER BEAUTIFUL ROAD - JUST TAKE THE DIVERSION TO IT.
PARENTS & TEACHERS - PLEASE DO NOT PRESSURIZE YOUR WARDS. HELP IF YOU CAN. PLEASE SUPPORT WHATEVER CAREER OR LIFE WE WANT TO LIVE.
Bullying is is identified as a mojor problem in US schools and so must be in India. When the bullying becomes unbearable the victim if having access to weapons shoots the bullies or else commits suicide. BULLYING MUST BE BANNED IN SCHOOLS BY GOVERNMENT LIKE RAGGING IS BANNED IN COLLEGES. Schools should wake up to the reality that bullying is a crime and stop it to maintain healthy school environment and prevent such incidents in future.
Why all these students belongs to only thakur,yadav,muslims,jat,brahmin because they learn all these things from their family.You can not deny these.You just look why maximum politician belongs to these category only,Why we are not seeing any Kayasthya,Baniya,Vishwakarma and other working class people as a political leader,because to be leader first of all u should be goonda with mass caste supoort.
Yesterday 10th class student shot his junior in Satna (MP) with fathers country-made pistol. Why his father kept that pistol (unlicenced)--- just to show off within his group. Similarily there are parents who give steering control of big-cars/bikes etc to teens to avoid the responsibilities, resulting in some or other problems. Also in Society, people talk of big cars other luxury items with fellow which make significant impact on kids. These kids are then following all sorts of wrong-paths to acheive the status symbols. WHO IS THEN RESPONSIBLE?
I agree with Sunita Dewan to some extent. But we must remember that a child is a product of the parents as well as the society. Hence it is important the parents play their very crucial role of bringing up a child in the way he/she should go, to educate the child so that the evil influences of bad friends and the society is nullified. To teach the children values of life: character, integrity, honesty, love (not for self) for others, care & concern for others. It is important for the child to know that he/she is responsible for his/her own actions and accountable to authority. Most important every human being will one day stand before his maker who will judge and there is a consequence to the way he/she has lived their life. Joseph
v need 2 learn a lot 4m our past... children r gettin spoild by seein 2des muvies...m nt sayin every muvie...bt dere r many muvies ...wich give wrong msg n children r vulnerable 2 implement...cuz dey r nt pragmatic .. apart 4m dis internet is also 2 b blamed... children r v delicate n dey mould demselves v easily 2 wat dey think is right... parents shud dedicate quality time 2 dem.. children shud b given morre n more knowledge of our indian culture..v shud nt cut our roots...
