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HariOm Chawla
Marriage with best friend
by HariOm Chawla on Apr 28, 2008 05:44 PM

Friendship and marriage are two separate things and should not be mingled. With your best friend, you can be just be yourself without any thought about what he (or she) would think as there is total acceptance among friends. But with spouse, you relation is always in danger. Even a small untoward thing can upset the marriage.

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rajeev kumar tiwari
entrepreneurship 1991 till date
by rajeev kumar tiwari on Apr 25, 2008 12:41 PM

friends of both sex have same status but spouce is different he or she may be preferably from similar backgrounds to avoid any conflict due to difference in opinion /culture/status/objective/relations/
etc they can be better friends than husband and wife

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vinod kumar
Friend VS. Lover( Spouse)
by vinod kumar on Apr 22, 2008 08:15 PM

In my opinion, a friend can never be a spouse.It just does not work that way. Reason - A good friend does everything you want him / her to do ( without hinting ); and does not expect anything in return.A spouse definitely has expectations. I am married, and I do have good friends. I am not trying to be partial here. It is just that a great friend can be stood up any number of times.And he will still be your friend. You may avoid any number of calls of his, but you still remain a friend when you need him.A spouse, well it is a different issue. You have to create time and space for her.You have to take care of the relationship.You cannot avoid certain things like accompanying her to her friends / family parties. You have to give in to her whims and fancies. Well, it is just that the frequency is different. A friend is a friend. A spouse is a spouse. We should try and not mingle these two.

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friends not partners
by savari on Apr 22, 2008 05:19 PM  | Hide replies

I and my wife were best friends for 5 years and then we married. The rest is turmoil

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whats better than best friends in love
by moncy on Apr 22, 2008 05:17 PM  | Hide replies

i do not agree with it.if your best friend is a boy or girl do not lose the purity of friendship thinking in sense of love and marriage.love to a friend and a spouse is different at least from certain angles.may be you'll lose a friend doing so

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muthalagu valan
RE:whats better than best friends in love
by muthalagu valan on Apr 23, 2008 09:29 AM
Good one... i agree with u...

after marriage u will miss a friend in the name of a wife...

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I hav many friends
by narendra on Apr 22, 2008 04:21 PM  | Hide replies

Gud friends! some are gals. so wat..??

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radesh bhat
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by radesh bhat on Apr 22, 2008 03:15 PM

Marrying your best friend is a good Idea, Until you marry her/him.

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Malar selvi
very good idea
by Malar selvi on Apr 22, 2008 02:44 PM  | Hide replies

it is really very good idea
i have one best friend i love him lot but i was scared to prapose him.what can i do
please tell me

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dennis john
RE:very good idea
by dennis john on Apr 22, 2008 04:39 PM
Buy him a after shave lotion or a tube of quadriderm .He will understand it.

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