Comparisons are one of the biggest reasons of depression. even a rich kid can fall to depression if his/her friends or kids of the same socio economic status are better off than him/her.
Alcohol, substance abuse and bad sleep which are increasing among teens in metroes can also push teens into depression.
This is not new happening.In good olden days it used to happen with ambitious children/tin aggers or whose parents were very ambitious.However at that time opprtunities were enormous and life was not competitive from the day you born. Comparision starts from birth and expectation of parents from children are from the first day of birth.Very rich people are much more involved and caring for the smallest of the small thing of infant such as increse in frequency of stool or little cough. The same parents expect too much in highly speedy and competitive society where survival is a problem.We have to come out of this mad race. We used to leave many things to GOD.Modern science gives a message that GOD is not needed element. Praying of GOD giving self auto suggestion was un known but common therapy.But we are taught every thing is possible.Every body can be Amitabh Bacchan,Sachin Tendulkar,Staffi Graph or Peter Samprus.Let us come out of all these idiotic illusion.GO TO GITA " YOU GOT RIGHT ONLY ON KARMA NOT ON THE OUTCOME".But we decided outcome first and KARM last.To wish child to be Doctor or Engineer from day one but wan't take proper trouble to achieve the same.RESULT TEEN AGERS ARE UNDER DEPRESSION AND SUCIDE RATE IS HIGH.In SWEDEN where goverment takes care from "Womb toTomb", sucide rate is 50 times higher than Egypt. Children of Slum do easily commit sucude but son of milliionaire easily comits. LET US THINK SERIOUSLY.
Re: Note: 1. The Project Proponents are requested to cir
by sudhir dave on Jan 05, 2010 03:41 PM
Last sentecnce read like this. Children of Slum do NOT easily commit sucide but son of millionnaire easily commits
This is not new happening.In good olden days it used to happen with ambitious children/tin aggers or whose parents were very ambitious.However at that time opprtunities were enormous and life was not competitive from the day you born. Comparision starts from birth and expectation of parents from children are from the first day of birth.Very rich people are much more involved and caring for the smallest of the small thing of infant such as increse in frequency of stool or little cough. The same parents expect too much in highly speedy and competitive society where survival is a problem.We have to come out of this mad race. We used to leave many things to GOD.Modern science gives a message that GOD is not needed element. Praying of GOD giving self auto suggestion was un known but common therapy.But we are taught every thing is possible.Every body can be Amitabh Bacchan,Sachin Tendulkar,Staffi Graph or Peter Samprus.Let us come out of all these idiotic illusion.GO TO GITA " YOU GOT RIGHT ONLY ON KARMA NOT ON THE OUTCOME".But we decided outcome first and KARM last.To wish child to be Doctor or Engineer from day one but wan't take proper trouble to achieve the same.RESULT TEEN AGERS ARE UNDER DEPRESSION AND SUCIDE RATE IS HIGH.In SWEDEN where goverment takes care from "Womb toTomb", sucide rate is 50 times higher than Egypt. Children of Slum do easily commit sucude but son of milliionaire easily comits. LET US THINK SERIOUSLY.
> converting value based society to money centric one > changed (bhogi) lifestyle > obesity in kids > depression created due to increased desire > s3x related issues and crimes > disco, clubbing, drinking, drugs
Who is to blame...? Who brought all these in INDIA....?
Re: Gifts....
by First Hindu on Jan 05, 2010 02:43 PM
Answer to all this is
> Get up at 4 am > Do your yogasana > DO your meditation > Perform at your work place > avoid TV > and take lot of rest > Leave rest to destiny - it will take care of its own.
Re: Re: Re: Gifts....
by frank G on Jan 05, 2010 03:12 PM
what abt the most imp thing in life ? we indians never talk about it even today.We shud do a lot of it with many.
Re: Re: Gifts....
by kiran kumar on Jan 05, 2010 03:25 PM
Live in pollution free climate, soft food (Saatvikaahar) and reading informative books will also help
Re: Gifts....
by hemant thawani on Jan 05, 2010 03:17 PM
My sincere thanks to the west for all those things that they have given us. Cheers Cant imagine life without them
University only teaches the course materials , but do not educate students the art of living. I , do art of living course to get the expertise on the way you should live ur life and fight obstacles.. depression etc. do Sudarshan kriya process and everything will be resolved in minutes..
Re: disciplined life
by Sagar Muniram on Jan 05, 2010 02:28 PM
Discipline is one of the ingredient of successful life. Everyone should remember he gets this life once only so he should use it to the fullest, enjoy it, by becoming sympathetic to others and to be content with after achieving certain level of success. Perents must dedicate more time to their children, understand tham and their wishes also. Only providing comforts is not enough.
