I have proposed my best friend for marriage few days ago. We know each other for few years and very close friends. But she seems confused,saying she cannot marry a friend whoever it is, however close it is. she stopped answering calls. Now it seems friendship is at stake. what to do?
Whether you marry your best friend or a stranger chosen by your family, a two-way relationship of respect is critical for the marriage to survive. Treating your life-partner with disrespect lessens your respect in your life-partner's eyes. He or she may forgive you for doing so, but continuing to misbehave and disrespect causes uncertainty of the continuation of a good relationship. Distances between minds, hearts, and souls increase with disrespect. If you love someone, treat them well. If you do not treat them well, you do not deserve to be with them.
Marrying your best friend, either boy or girl, is a good idea. Being friends, they would have known each other and they will also know each others likes and dislikes, Now a days, marrying a person completely unknown is not desired by anybody. Because marriage is the amalgamation of two minds and it is also desirable that the partners know each other before tying the knot. If the partners know each other beforehand and understood well, the married life will be smooth and happy.
From my pointof it is not a good idea too marry your friend. the problem is as a friend you share alot of things with him/her which you can take it as granted but when your friend is your life partner then all those things becomes important and can not be tolarated. To know everything about someone can be harmful as well. Also it all depends on how matuared you are. the best thing is to make your life partner your best friend instead of other way.....
