I went through this article and comments of all people.Please go through the following if you are steady in Heart.
I worked before in a No 1 Banking Company in the World which has Fiancail,IT,Security Departments you name it.Its one of its buisness unit is located in Mumbai.In one of our projects there were these native guy and native girl who loved each other in Critcal Project.There performance in work was meeting the expectations.The Managment was silently monitoring them,the project was critcal and these two people got married.Later their performance was good was not upto clients expectation.the guy was blaberring "Love is end of Wisdom".The Girl was blabering "Love is Blind".The Managment Said "Work for the Money we pay you and dont fool around".After a year the women got pregnant and she was approved only 1 month for her materney.The Guy did double the work including the Night Shift.After they had baby which their parents take care they were made to work 18.5 hrs in an office with a threat of termination and cancellation of their PPF.Now they realise work is worship. They were also told their experience certificate will have a black mark if they are not good in next their service in a peroid of 5 years.
Moral of the Story Be a Roman in Rome,Be a Employee only in Office.You will be Scwred if you try the other ways.
can anyone tell these south indians to keep their junk love stories to them without harrasing common people.............one side love what the hell is this word???????????????????
love is nt a sin bt office shud be limited to professionalism as it has to do with the image of a whole company or institution, so better respect it n keep personal matters 4 home
Hi all, Working place is for work. Then how romance is allowed there? Due to romance some favouritism may be there. Finally the system whether it may be govt or private will get corrupted and some good dedicated fellows may affected. You rediff fools ask them who got affected to talk about office romance. Govt (mainly ladies exploiters sitting in law panel)who bothers about ladies toooo much announces a sexual harassment bill to protect them. Fine.What about sexual adjustment bill(means getting&giving sex for getting official things easily) which will protect the system by punishing both men&women who indulge out-of-work activities in offices. This bill will protect the system in real public interest(not for women interest)and give more work output and country will develop. I know this type of bill will never come. Because the law panel itself want to enjoy the sexual adjustment in offices.
This is Mr Reddy from Andhrapradesh, to be honest, I am a poor guy from a remote village(there is no power/road connection...)by god grace I joined in a private school in a nearby town.My life started there, I was the town 2nd topper and after that I joined Intermediate in a govt college. There I got attracted to a girl (I know it was not love) and after that I failed in some subjects(first year), but I realized within no time, studied day and night and managed to get college second. Then after that I got good rank in EAMCET and joined the same college where she joined, I never know, why I loved her very blunt, in the final year, I proposed my love to her, she rejected, then, I joined M.Tech, then worked for L&T and then presently in UK. Meanwhile, I proosed her 1000 times, approached their parents, her brother, for some reason, they all started hating me. They were scarred that I may commit suicide If she gets married to some other girl. so stopped her marriage also, after this news I immediately decided to marry some other girl, so that she can get marriegd to some other boy. So, my one sided love ended after 12 years. Now I am a happy man living with my wife. I never regretted for what has happend. But its tough to forget the fast. Anyway, day by day, i completely forgot her.
Moral of the story:Everything is part of the life, so try ur level best and leave rest to the god. Even Alfred nobel failed in his love. Nothing is permanent, now I am lucky person to have und
RE:REmzk
by mamatha sreenivas on Nov 28, 2007 04:03 PM
errata: please read "They were scarred that I may commit suicide If she gets married to some other girl" as "They were scarred that I may commit suicide If she gets married to some other boy".
And some extension to the above message, I above message
Now I am a lucky to a have an understanding, loving, caring wife. She is even more qualified and working for a UK company.
I have a true love story about my colleagues working in IT support. Rajesh, a North Indian boy fell in love with new joinee Madhur, a South Indian fair looking girl. Both of them were going steady and their love was getting nurtured. This affair went on for 2 years. When I left the job, they were planning to get married.
Recently, I came to know from my other colleague that Rajesh is married to someone else and Madhur is also married to someone else. I was shocked to hear this news. It happened that when they informed their decision to marry each other to their parents, the reaction was mixed. Rajesh's parents were ready to accept the alliance, but from Madhur's family, her father was not accepting the alliance. He did not wanted Madhur to marry out of the caste. Madhur's mother was ready to accept Rajesh as son-in-law. Finally after 8-9 months later they decided to part the ways. According to them, marriage happens between the families and not as individuals. If one of the parents were not happy for the alliance, then the relationships between the families will not be a healthy relationship. They wanted the blessings from all 4 of them. This was the major reason to part the ways, although Rajesh's family has accepted Madhur.
I could see the different form of love between them and have a great respect for Rajesh and Madhur. They have defined a new form of love.
RE:Family and Love
by Murthy Kadam on Nov 28, 2007 06:59 AM
Oh...I don't think this is new form of love....this is nothing but stupidness!!! or may be they enjoyed their life for 2 yrs as lovers!!....A true love thinks of extreams....If they really loved each other then should have not married to other's and spoil other's life as these two can never forget each other if their love is true....If they wanna satisfy their parents they should have not married for ever....LOVE IS HOLY THING!!..why these stupids blamed love for attraction and sex!!!!.
Will u accept if your wife is in deep love with other boy and marry u?...how can u love one and marry other?....is loving has 2 faces like coins?....off course now a days love runs on coins!!!!....and this story is the witness!!!.....sorry frnd i never had any intentions to hurt your feelings....but these spoiled life of other two because of their stupidness of loving and so called great sacrifice!!!....I am sure 4 live's on fire now!!!!
RE:Family and Love
by Just Like That on Nov 28, 2007 08:51 AM
I agree fully with you, Murthy. I do not see any love, I mean true love, that has happened between Rajesh and Madhur.
If interested, read my own true love story few messages below..
RE:Family and Love
by venkatesh prasad on Nov 28, 2007 08:56 AM
Hardhik, your friends are true lovers, no doubt in it. thet sacrifice their life to their parents. becouse our life is belongs to parents, without them we would not be on the earth. hats off to madhur and rajesh.
RE:Family and Love
by Just Like That on Nov 28, 2007 09:53 AM
Venkatesh,while I fully agree with you that you have to respect your parents, in this case, the lovers could have taken some time to get their parents agreed rather than getting split if what they termed as love was true. Moreover, did not the lovers know the problem that may crop up while they were in 'love'?
Hardhik's friends were not true lovers. It was only infatuation or probably, they would have 'explored' before marriage itself and would have lost the charm.
RE:Family and Love
by Hardik Mehta on Nov 29, 2007 01:01 AM
IF you read carefully, they took 8-9 months before deciding to part away? do you think that they would not have explored all the possibilities. They have also approached to the extended family members to convince Madhur's father. After everything has failed, they decided to part away.
RE:Family and Love
by Ananth S on Dec 01, 2007 08:51 PM
Dear buddy,
No doubt, the actions of your friends were commendable, but the biggest question is, whether they are happy now after marrying someone else. Love is an emotion that will leave a person only when he dies. By marrying someone else and remembering them, are they not committing a sin on their respective spouses. For an affair that lasted 2 years, there is no doubt in my mind that they will never forget each other. Now the big question, is whether they did the right thing?
As you said, marriage happens between families and not individuals. With persistence and patience, Madhur's father would have accepted Rajesh and that would have resulted in a happy life for them of them.
I am not an advocater for arranged marriages, but i would surely like to tell people that if you dont have the guts to follow your beliefs, pls dont every try to fall in love, be it office or any other place. There is nothing worse than to fail in love and live further. And if by destiny, if you do succumb to the eternal sin, pls do make sure that you have the guts to prove your love to the world by standing with ur beloved. Madhur's father is not wrong in his own right, but rating a person just by his caste, is not wise. They should have made it a point to prove that Rajesh was much better than any other suitor that her father brought forth.
Anyways, my heart goes for the two lovebirds and i only pray to GOD to give them strength to live their lives happily.
I was wrking in accnts dept. while i had to reprt to a handsome beautiful charming lady. This happened for 6 months. 1day she asked me to join her for dinner in a hotel. I did. She asked me abt my thoughts abt co., colleagues n finally her. I said i was lking for a gd gal to fall in lve with whom i shud marry. She was anxious to knw abt my interest i njoy in my lfe. then finally on my b'day she proposed to me. I took 1 week n told all abt me, my family, my parents. She listened carefully n nodded saying she is interested to run a family with me despite i xplained abt my 1000 problems in getting married. She even try to get my attention by coming close talking a bit dirty holding my hands, alot went like this. This hapend for 2 n hlf yrs. Then finally i ma settled with her. She has bcome boss n me the manager. both r getting a hefty amt as pay due to which myself, parents, brthers r leading luxurios life.
I was quite fortunate for it. But can't say it will work for all.
RE:MY STORY
by srinivas on Nov 28, 2007 09:42 AM
hay.. sparkel good story. same time there are some people on this board who are commenting on you, don%u2019t worry there are just jealous of your success story..
RE:MY STORY
by LAXMAN c on Nov 28, 2007 09:48 AM
why dont you join bollywood or wite fiction. you can be a good script writer. And of course you wont be allowed to use 'chat language' there.
RE:MY STORY
by D D on Nov 28, 2007 09:09 AM
It seems she did not teach how to type. Half your words are in some funny mode quite popularly known as "chat langauage".
I was wrking in accnts dept. while i had to reprt to a handsome beautiful charming lady. This happened for 6 months. 1day she asked me to join her for dinner in a hotel. I did. She asked me abt my thoughts abt co., colleagues n finally her. I said i was lking for a gd gal to fall in lve with whom i shud marry. She was anxious to knw abt my interest i njoy in my lfe. then finally on my b'day she proposed to me. I took 1 week n told all abt me, my family, my parents. She listened carefully n nodded saying she is interested to run a family with me despite i xplained abt my 1000 problems in getting married. She even try to get my attention by coming close talking a bit dirty holding my hands, alot went like this. This hapend for 2 n hlf yrs. Then finally i ma settled with her. She has bcome boss n me the manager. both r getting a hefty amt as pay due to which myself, parents, brthers r leading luxurios life.
I was quite fortunate for it. But can't say it will work for all.
WORK WHILE YOU WORK PLAY WHILE YOU PLAY THAT IS THE WAY TO BE HAPPY AND GAY NEVER MIX LOVE AND WORK .I AM SORRY TO SAY IT IS INDIAN CULTURE.SO OFTEN LOVE BECOMES BLIND.SAMSON ASEERVATHAM
it sure does. it does not always work out. corporates these days are adopting strict rules that husband wife cannot work in same organizations. better keep your head intact and resign gracefully when circumstance or situation demands over being asked to resign. much worse you will loose self respect and esteem earned over years of slogging it out
