I fell with my bestfriend too. The first one... we became a couple but since he's such a freaking jerk, we broke up. And now, the second time around! I fell for another best friend again and worse! He has a girlfriend! For years I succeeded in suppressing my feelings but when I was given a chance to represent the school for a week (with him), my feelings kinda splashed out of the bottle! It was and is painful because he doesn't see me as anything past a bestfriend. I should be more than contented that I'm his bestfriend but I dunno what sort of curse corrupted this brain of mine that all logic seemed clouded! I know it's wrong but what can I do? I'M ONLY YET ANOTHER VICTIM OF LOVE.
I fell with my bestfriend too. The first one... we became a couple but since he's such a freaking jerk, we broke up. And now, the second time around! I fell for another best friend again and worse! He has a girlfriend! For years I succeeded in suppressing my feelings but when I was given a chance to represent the school for a week (with him), my feelings kinda splashed out of the bottle! It was and is painful because he doesn't see me as anything past a bestfriend. I should be more than contented that I'm his bestfriend but I dunno what sort of curse corrupted this brain of mine that all logic seemed clouded! I know it's wrong but what can I do? I'M ONLY YET ANOTHER VICTIM OF LOVE.
I fell with my bestfriend too. The first one... we became a couple but since he's such a freaking jerk, we broke up. And now, the second time around! I fell for another best friend again and worse! He has a girlfriend! For years I succeeded in suppressing my feelings but when I was given a chance to represent the school for a week (with him), my feelings kinda splashed out of the bottle! It was and is painful because he doesn't see me as anything past a bestfriend. I should be more than contented that I'm his bestfriend but I dunno what sort of curse corrupted this brain of mine that all logic seemed clouded! I know it's wrong but what can I do? I'M ONLY YET ANOTHER VICTIM OF LOVE.
I am a student in high school and in the past i have met this special girl in one of my classes. We talked just about everyday, had everything in common, and we never argued. As days and days past, we started getting really close together. At the time we were best friends. One night we spoke about a possible relationship. She felt the same way I felt about her. We both love each other dearly. I was very happy when i found out that she felt the same way i felt. A couple of days later, I decided to step up to the plate and ask her to be my girlfriend. She couldn't believe what came out of my mouth. She said Yes! and gave me such a loving hug. We dated for a while but the summer made everything worse. I played tournament baseball and she played tournament softball; we rarely talked because we had games everyday and we were constantly out of town. After my season ends, and her season continuing, she claims she found someone else because she feels they are more attached because they had intercourse. Me and her were going to but we never had the chance to. So now she only wants to be my best friend again. But its strange because every time she comes over, she seems like she wants to be with me. I can still feel the connection between us; the same connection we had when we were together as a couple. I have a good feeling once we start school again, she will want to be with me again because i will constantly be around her.We are meant for each other. Write me Feedback
I have loved my best friend for quite some time, but she is afraid that if we go out we might end are relationship together, i don't think that will happen, I love her to much to let it happen, please can anyone help me?
i have love my friend for 25 years we have been through every thing together. We never lost contact we just never made it work. yes we made love before but i told him that.it will mess up our friendship. now 2008 after all our bad relationships on thanksgiving night we did it and it felt right so now we will betogether and no matter what we will make it work.. we have so much in common, we like the same things, foods, movies. My mom passed away 16 yrs ago and when she met him she told me to be with and him. i just wish she was here to see us together.when we wa younger my other girlfriend said we should go out and it never happen i called her last night 12/21/08 to tell her we are together and she was so happy for us. i cryed this morning because i wasted my time on so many loser when i could have been loving my best friend all along..so if you find true love and you have a great communication, with trust than it should never be a problem. i love him and always have.
I think it depends on the individuals. I have had a male best friend for over 15 years. We've been there through our first marriages, children, etc. We had lost contact in 2000, and ironically ended up on the same delayed flight going to our home town. We stayed in contact then lost contact again when I moved to Texas, he was stationed in California. during this time we both remarried and once again ironically, when things were going sour in both of the marriages we found each other. Since then which has been since 2006 we have stayed in contact. Since we are older we've actually discussed how we felt about each other. (We did this one time along time ago and left if at that). We have both longed to be with each other and now we finally have the opportunity.
We have always felt as if we were "soul mates" but there were times when neither one of us wanted to step up to the plate and say something thinking that the other would feel differently. So there are some situations where if it is meant to be it will happen. I love him and have always loved him and he feels the same way. It's good that we have so much in common, he knows all my flaws, secrets, my different attitudes and feelings, etc. and I know the same. We made the choice to decide this is what we are willing to deal with. When you are a friend, You know the individual. You're not meeting "a representative", so why not fall in love with some one who has your best interest and happiness at heart?
Don%u2019t you ever think of falling in love with your best friend! It%u2019s the worst thing which can happen to you%u2026it%u2019s even worse than rejection! A couple of weeks ago, I fell in love with my best friend. For him I was just a friend%u2026At least this is what I thought I was! He was always teasing me and making fun of me! Every time I was doing something wrong he was making comments%u2026At the beginning I was getting angry but I couldn%u2019t stay like that%u2026He was not stopping, he was just saying that I don%u2019t have a sense of humor! I knew I had and I know that I still have. The thing is that all of my friends were making fun of me but when I was with them I had a great time.. They were always finding something wrong on me%u2026.The days were passing by%u2026One day he stopped talking to me. He said that it would be better not to talk to each other so that I wouldn%u2019t get angry and I wouldn%u2019t break his nerves%u2026 I don%u2019t know what%u2019s next because it hasn%u2019t happen yet%u2026It%u2019s happening now.. He%u2019s not talking to me and I%u2019m very disappointed%u2026I don%u2019t feel good at all! I love him but he doesn%u2019t even want to talk to me%u2026He said: %u201DI don%u2019t want to talk to you!!!%u201D. I don%u2019t know what to do%u2026.When he said that I was like dying%u2026 The only thing I wanted was to cry%u2026 I don%u2019t know whose fault it is, who is to blame. I also don%u2019t know why I feel like that%u2026we didn%u2019t have anything serious, did we? No one is with me in this%u2026I cannot talk about it with my other best friend because he%u2019s his brother. I cannot talk to my other best fri
Don%u2019t you ever think of falling in love with your best friend! It%u2019s the worst thing which can happen to you%u2026it%u2019s even worse than rejection! A couple of weeks ago, I fell in love with my best friend. For him I was just a friend%u2026At least this is what I thought I was! He was always teasing me and making fun of me! Every time I was doing something wrong he was making comments%u2026At the beginning I was getting angry but I couldn%u2019t stay like that%u2026He was not stopping, he was just saying that I don%u2019t have a sense of humor! I knew I had and I know that I still have. The thing is that all of my friends were making fun of me but when I was with them I had a great time.. They were always finding something wrong on me%u2026.The days were passing by%u2026One day he stopped talking to me. He said that it would be better not to talk to each other so that I wouldn%u2019t get angry and I wouldn%u2019t break his nerves%u2026 I don%u2019t know what%u2019s next because it hasn%u2019t happen yet%u2026It%u2019s happening now.. He%u2019s not talking to me and I%u2019m very disappointed%u2026I don%u2019t feel good at all! I love him but he doesn%u2019t even want to talk to me%u2026He said: %u201DI don%u2019t want to talk to you!!!%u201D. I don%u2019t know what to do%u2026.When he said that I was like dying%u2026 The only thing I wanted was to cry%u2026 I don%u2019t know whose fault it is, who is to blame. I also don%u2019t know why I feel like that%u2026w
he became my best friend at a tough time in my life and even though i was in a relationship we had a special attraction, we tell each other everything and more, he tells me about other girls i tell him about other guys but we both are monogamous sexually with each other... and we love each other dearly and no one comes between us I'm 1st to him and he's first to me, its great actually we have our ups and downs and we're talking about a serious relationship so we'll see..so it can happen and i know that no matter what i'm still his friend...
