How can you live with such a guy, i am a north indian girl married to a south indian guy, things are really worse at my end, but i never let my self esteem to loose.my mother in law hates me, but my husband loves me, thats the only thing that i stuck to this house.i concenrate only on my work and totally ignored her.plz dont loose your self esteem and move on.
I don't know if this guy is worth it. Sure the mother is important, but she will only be around for a few more years, while marriage is a life long commitment. This is essentially a power struggle. If you really like the guy,maybe you should grit it out,concede the battle to win the war,otherwise look for other options.The very fact that you are looking for other options could jolt him and maybe improve things.
I do not know what happened to you since July of last year. I came across this article only today. But I hope things are fine with you now. On reading the article I thought, if your husband doesn't acknowledge your importance as his wife, then it makes no sense to be with a person like this forever. He is not using his own judgement, making his own decisions. A person of 32 years of age should be able to make his own calls. Hope you have found the happiness you rightly deserve by now.
